02-12-2023, 06:04 PM
I think it’s because they sense that I’m immune to loneliness (and actually want nothing more than to be left alone)
“I’m going to this concert and I have no one to go with… so yeah.”
-my autistic coworker
(I ended up going with him)
“There’s this new Mexican restaurant I want to try, but I have no one to go with”
-my other coworker
(I will go with her next weekend)
And just now I was at my barber who has hinted to me many times he wants to get to know me outside of work too, and I usually change the topic but today I decided to go with it. I told him I’m going to a Christmas market with some friends today and he was like “oh that sounds nice, I would love to go there too.” I told him “if you decide to go tomorrow, I can go again with you.” He’s a chad lite dark blonde blue eyed Lebanese man who is 34, divorced and has two kids. He was so happy when I invited him and then he was telling me stuff like “you’re more comfortable now without girlfriend, yes?”
I wonder if he’s closeted gay
“I’m going to this concert and I have no one to go with… so yeah.”
-my autistic coworker
(I ended up going with him)
“There’s this new Mexican restaurant I want to try, but I have no one to go with”
-my other coworker
(I will go with her next weekend)
And just now I was at my barber who has hinted to me many times he wants to get to know me outside of work too, and I usually change the topic but today I decided to go with it. I told him I’m going to a Christmas market with some friends today and he was like “oh that sounds nice, I would love to go there too.” I told him “if you decide to go tomorrow, I can go again with you.” He’s a chad lite dark blonde blue eyed Lebanese man who is 34, divorced and has two kids. He was so happy when I invited him and then he was telling me stuff like “you’re more comfortable now without girlfriend, yes?”
I wonder if he’s closeted gay

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