[Aspie] Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you"

[numb digger]

they want you to submit to them. they want the feeling of "owning you" they pretend to help and give you advice like a friend but they want to keep you below them.

I think it's more trying to keep the peace and not get involved tbh

Unfortunately I'm aspie as fuck so I can't take a hint

I follow a rule now that everyone hates me and has it in for me, and I'm correct like 100% of the time

That's why I limit interaction to this forum. Even discord is uncharted territory