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Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you" (/showthread.php?tid=49060)Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you" - numb digger - 17-04-2026
Lol, no they don't.
Heard this so many times. They all fucking hate you, lmao. No exceptions.
RE: Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you" - Mr Pill - 17-04-2026
they want to kill you
RE: Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you" - B00X - 17-04-2026
No one wants to help me, only I can help myself but I am too incompetent
RE: Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you" - Altruist - 18-04-2026
Over for altruists
RE: Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you" - numb digger - 18-04-2026
(17-04-2026, 05:50 PM)Mr Pill Wrote: they want to kill you
(17-04-2026, 10:23 PM)B00X Wrote: No one wants to help me, only I can help myself but I am too incompetent
(18-04-2026, 03:04 AM)Altruist Wrote: Over for altruists
I've it so many times
The other version is " I think this person hates me" And they reply "no they don't hate you lol" then they proceed to literally trying to murder you and stealing your shit
Fucking amazing how easily people can lie and feel no shame. Not that I'm not a liar, but I don't have any pretentions of being a good person
RE: Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you" - B00X - 18-04-2026
(18-04-2026, 03:44 AM)numb digger Wrote: I've it so many times
The other version is " I think this person hates me" And they reply "no they don't hate you lol" then they proceed to literally trying to murder you and stealing your shit
Fucking amazing how easily people can lie and feel no shame. Not that I'm not a liar, but I don't have any pretentions of being a good person
they want you to submit to them. they want the feeling of "owning you" they pretend to help and give you advice like a friend but they want to keep you below them.
RE: Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you" - numb digger - 18-04-2026
(18-04-2026, 03:46 AM)B00X Wrote: they want you to submit to them. they want the feeling of "owning you" they pretend to help and give you advice like a friend but they want to keep you below them.
I think it's more trying to keep the peace and not get involved tbh
Unfortunately I'm aspie as fuck so I can't take a hint
I follow a rule now that everyone hates me and has it in for me, and I'm correct like 100% of the time
That's why I limit interaction to this forum. Even discord is uncharted territory
RE: Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you" - B00X - 18-04-2026
(18-04-2026, 03:50 AM)numb digger Wrote: I think it's more trying to keep the peace and not get involved tbh
Unfortunately I'm aspie as fuck so I can't take a hint
I follow a rule now that everyone hates me and has it in for me, and I'm correct like 100% of the time
That's why I limit interaction to this forum. Even discord is uncharted territory
true but there is a power dynamic at play as well. interact with whatever and whoever makes you comfortable, no point in trying new things atp. I have limited interactions as well, I dont even use discord anymore.
RE: Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you" - Honest - 18-04-2026
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Middle English (in the sense ‘stupid’): from Old French, from Latin nescius ‘ignorant’, from nescire ‘not know’. Other early senses included ‘coy, reserved’, giving rise to ‘fastidious, scrupulous’: this led both to the sense ‘fine, subtle’ (regarded by some as the ‘correct’ sense), and to the main current senses.