[Theory] I've always failed to see how "Narcissism" is negative

[eldajaal1488]

So, your definition of Narcissist is "someone who thinks they are extremely special, when usually they aren't, and when you inform them of this they become enraged."

That sounds more like a sensitive or unfortunate state; but the way they are spoken about, narcissists are painted as Harmful to others.

"How I'm recovering from dating a narcissist" etc.

ur definition is correct, and yeah narcies can be harmful to others.