I have no IRL friends at the moment

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do you live in the US? I don't think it applies as much to other countries but a really bad blackpill in the US is people often lose contact with their friends made in their 20s once they hit 30s and most of them have families they are preoccupied with. they might have a few close friends they keep up with but their social circle dramatically dwindles and as a result the people in their age group who didn't get married also watch their friendship circle dwindle unless they befriend other 30+ single people who are more likely to be weirdos. only exception for normies is if they are 30+ married high status people who have lots of artificial friendships with other high status people in their peer group but these friendships are mostly based on money.

yeah im a burgercel. is this phenomena only unique to the US? what you described sounds exactly like my experience though

just use this forum as a replacement

I do, unironically

The new zealand subreddits are littered with searching for friends threads, maybe try reddit tbh? But there's nothing wrong with strictly online relationships, doing shit irl is tedious but ofc that depends on the type of person you are

you know, at first I thought you were trolling about using reddit to find friends, but then I realized you were being serious, and then I realized that actually that might be a good idea. im ok with online friendships too (im here at PSL right), but nothing replaces knocking back a bunch of cold ones with IRL friends