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I have no IRL friends at the moment - M1NT - 21-07-2024
I have no friends that I can go out and get a beer with. like I have people that I can call up that might come out, but they dont really drink and theyre not close friends, like I just dont have that same chemistry with them. it kind of sucks bros, I just feel lonely and bored ATM
RE: I have no IRL friends at the moment - n9wiff - 21-07-2024
I need to socialise once I get into my degree program, to prevent things because easier to make friends when young. Especially if you are a male
RE: I have no IRL friends at the moment - M1NT - 21-07-2024
(21-07-2024, 06:25 AM)n9wiff Wrote: I need to socialise once I get into my degree program, to prevent things because easier to make friends when young. Especially if you are a male
yes this, I underestimated how important age is for friendmaxxing. once you get in your 30s its over. ok not really, but it does get harder to make friends because youre basically "that old guy", and even if you still look young, you wont be in the same environments that young people are in anymore, so its hard to make friends
RE: I have no IRL friends at the moment - applefeed - 21-07-2024
do you live in the US? I don't think it applies as much to other countries but a really bad blackpill in the US is people often lose contact with their friends made in their 20s once they hit 30s and most of them have families they are preoccupied with. they might have a few close friends they keep up with but their social circle dramatically dwindles and as a result the people in their age group who didn't get married also watch their friendship circle dwindle unless they befriend other 30+ single people who are more likely to be weirdos. only exception for normies is if they are 30+ married high status people who have lots of artificial friendships with other high status people in their peer group but these friendships are mostly based on money.
RE: I have no IRL friends at the moment - Altruist - 21-07-2024
just use this forum as a replacement
RE: I have no IRL friends at the moment - Altruist - 21-07-2024
(21-07-2024, 10:12 AM)applefeed Wrote: do you live in the US? I don't think it applies as much to other countries but a really bad blackpill in the US is people often lose contact with their friends made in their 20s once they hit 30s and most of them have families they are preoccupied with. they might have a few close friends they keep up with but their social circle dramatically dwindles and as a result the people in their age group who didn't get married also watch their friendship circle dwindle unless they befriend other 30+ single people who are more likely to be weirdos. only exception for normies is if they are 30+ married high status people who have lots of artificial friendships with other high status people in their peer group but these friendships are mostly based on money.
yeah, definitely sounds like something that only happens in usa
RE: I have no IRL friends at the moment - prince of shitskins - 21-07-2024
The new zealand subreddits are littered with searching for friends threads, maybe try reddit tbh? But there's nothing wrong with strictly online relationships, doing shit irl is tedious but ofc that depends on the type of person you are
RE: I have no IRL friends at the moment - M1NT - 21-07-2024
(21-07-2024, 10:12 AM)applefeed Wrote: do you live in the US? I don't think it applies as much to other countries but a really bad blackpill in the US is people often lose contact with their friends made in their 20s once they hit 30s and most of them have families they are preoccupied with. they might have a few close friends they keep up with but their social circle dramatically dwindles and as a result the people in their age group who didn't get married also watch their friendship circle dwindle unless they befriend other 30+ single people who are more likely to be weirdos. only exception for normies is if they are 30+ married high status people who have lots of artificial friendships with other high status people in their peer group but these friendships are mostly based on money.yeah im a burgercel. is this phenomena only unique to the US? what you described sounds exactly like my experience though
(21-07-2024, 12:57 PM)Altruist Wrote: just use this forum as a replacementI do, unironically
(21-07-2024, 01:01 PM)weekend warrior Wrote: The new zealand subreddits are littered with searching for friends threads, maybe try reddit tbh? But there's nothing wrong with strictly online relationships, doing shit irl is tedious but ofc that depends on the type of person you areyou know, at first I thought you were trolling about using reddit to find friends, but then I realized you were being serious, and then I realized that actually that might be a good idea. im ok with online friendships too (im here at PSL right), but nothing replaces knocking back a bunch of cold ones with IRL friends
RE: I have no IRL friends at the moment - i wanna be a bimbo doll - 28-07-2024
what kind of loser you can find from a searching for friends - youd be better off talking to chat g pt
RE: I have no IRL friends at the moment - Mindful_gymcel - 28-07-2024
Who needs them anyways
They steal your energy and vitality