19-07-2024, 06:02 AM
(19-07-2024, 05:59 AM)M1NT Wrote: do you ever just not know what to say though? and then you begin thinking about the right thing to say, but then you start overthinking and before you know it, you dont know what sounds natural or not anymore
It's a habit of mine, yes but I think this is just common for people who overthink while being nervous for talking to women.
It went away the more I talked and interacted.
It's kind of like doing cold approaches, the more you start doing them, the more comfortable you get so it's like exposure therapy.
Used to be a nervous wreck where I couldn't talk to them IRL, would overthink every reply and response I gave/received etc. Now I have some female friends I can hang around with very casually.
Once you become comfortable and casual, you will start to treat them like talking to any other friend you have.
