the formula is so simple

[Altruist]

no alcohol
no pills
no binge eating
no porn
no binge scrolling (watching a movie or a show here and there is even ok)

yet ... it feels so out of reach.

and please dont fucking tell me it's the void i need to fill with women or socializing, lmao, i ve been the king of the campus for 3 years straight, having 9/10 20 yos literally jump in my bed at 5 am by sneaking in through the window, and none of that felt as gratifying as consuming the stuff i listed at the beginning of this thread. it did "objectively" make me feel like im living the dream, but the physical sensation was 30% as good at best

[Winyan Numpa]

well i dont do any of this and im still rotting so take that as u will

[Altruist]

well i dont do any of this and im still rotting so take that as u will

i think i was damaging my body and mind way less with that vanilla rotting, i wish i could regress to that

[Winyan Numpa]

i think i was damaging my body and mind way less with that vanilla rotting, i wish i could regress to that

yeah i healthily cozy rot

u need 700 adhd hobbies

[Altruist]

obv, ideally your "rotting" should consist of taking walks with your girlfriend in the sunset, playing sport and socializing with your friends and family, exercising or engaging in your community etc, but i ve never been close to that

[Winyan Numpa]

obv, ideally your "rotting" should consist of taking walks with your girlfriend in the sunset, playing sport and socializing with your friends and family, exercising or engaging in your community etc, but i ve never been close to that

yeh i am socially isolated + everyoen i make friends with ends up moving or becoming insane

ive never had irl relationship

[Altruist]

yeh i am socially isolated + everyoen i make friends with ends up moving or becoming insane

ive never had irl relationship

not to relativize human needs and experience, but i think it all depends on your baseline brain chemistry. some can function like hobos all their life, some are legit miserable and in agony despite being able to slay hot women, having a ton of friends, a rich social life and a functional family. obv these are extremes, but you get the point

i have vast social experience and i have yet to meet a person who was miserable as fuck and then randomly got a girlfriend and/or a friend group and became a happy go lucky hippie, and vice versa, someone who was super happy with great romantic and social life, lost 1-2 close people and turned into a wreck

[Winyan Numpa]

not to relativize human needs and experience, but i think it all depends on your baseline brain chemistry. some can function like hobos all their life, some are legit miserable and in agony despite being able to slay hot women, having a ton of friends, a rich social life and a functional family. obv these are extremes, but you get the point

i have vast social experience and i have yet to meet a person who was miserable as fuck and then randomly got a girlfriend and/or a friend group and became a happy go lucky hippie, and vice versa, someone who was super happy with great romantic and social life, lost 1-2 close people and turned into a wreck

maslows strikes agen, never met anyone in those extremes tho

[Altruist]

that's the opposite of my point, but ok

[Winyan Numpa]

that's the opposite of my point, but ok

yeh ik cuz i never met anyone in those extremes

[Altruist]

i just used the extremes to get my point across easier, ffs. even though i legit know a few

[Winyan Numpa]

i just used the extremes to get my point across easier, ffs. even though i legit know a few

yeh i get ur point but theres usually resilience factors and prior imprinting in someones esteem

like certain ppl here life ascended objectively and still post bullshit saying thyre ugly cuz they grew up thinking it 



have u heard phrase 
if someone talks abt the mean and other argues for the outliers they r both right or some shit

[Altruist]

yeh i get ur point but theres usually resilience factors and prior imprinting in someones esteem

like certain ppl here life ascended objectively and still post bullshit saying thyre ugly cuz they grew up thinking it 



have u heard phrase 
if someone talks abt the mean and other argues for the outliers they r both right or some shit

this shit can linger in your mind, sure, but let's be blackpilled for a second - vast majority of those are estrogenic cucks begging for validation (and majority of those "objective ascensions" are just internet larps randoms choose to accept as true); you know those "once depressed" people who cant stop yapping about how happy they are now? yeah, that just means they got to the point where they are suicidal most of the time.

never heard of the phrase

[Winyan Numpa]

this shit can linger in your mind, sure, but let's be blackpilled for a second - vast majority of those are estrogenic cucks begging for validation (and majority of those "objective ascensions" are just internet larps randoms choose to accept as true)

never heard of the phrase

@mogs_me

he called u an estrogenic cuck

u gonna take it?

[hitlersblackedwaifu]

you obviously need a substitute to those things, problem is nothing is good enough for you