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the formula is so simple - Altruist - 16-06-2026
no alcohol
no pills
no binge eating
no porn
no binge scrolling (watching a movie or a show here and there is even ok)
yet ... it feels so out of reach.
and please dont fucking tell me it's the void i need to fill with women or socializing, lmao, i ve been the king of the campus for 3 years straight, having 9/10 20 yos literally jump in my bed at 5 am by sneaking in through the window, and none of that felt as gratifying as consuming the stuff i listed at the beginning of this thread. it did "objectively" make me feel like im living the dream, but the physical sensation was 30% as good at best
RE: the formula is so simple - Winyan Numpa - 16-06-2026
well i dont do any of this and im still rotting so take that as u will
RE: the formula is so simple - Altruist - 16-06-2026
(16-06-2026, 07:35 PM)Winyan Numpa Wrote: well i dont do any of this and im still rotting so take that as u will
i think i was damaging my body and mind way less with that vanilla rotting, i wish i could regress to that
RE: the formula is so simple - Winyan Numpa - 16-06-2026
(16-06-2026, 07:37 PM)Altruist Wrote: i think i was damaging my body and mind way less with that vanilla rotting, i wish i could regress to that
yeah i healthily cozy rot
u need 700 adhd hobbies
RE: the formula is so simple - Altruist - 16-06-2026
obv, ideally your "rotting" should consist of taking walks with your girlfriend in the sunset, playing sport and socializing with your friends and family, exercising or engaging in your community etc, but i ve never been close to that
RE: the formula is so simple - Winyan Numpa - 16-06-2026
(16-06-2026, 07:41 PM)Altruist Wrote: obv, ideally your "rotting" should consist of taking walks with your girlfriend in the sunset, playing sport and socializing with your friends and family, exercising or engaging in your community etc, but i ve never been close to that
yeh i am socially isolated + everyoen i make friends with ends up moving or becoming insane
ive never had irl relationship
RE: the formula is so simple - Altruist - 16-06-2026
(16-06-2026, 07:44 PM)Winyan Numpa Wrote: yeh i am socially isolated + everyoen i make friends with ends up moving or becoming insane
ive never had irl relationship
not to relativize human needs and experience, but i think it all depends on your baseline brain chemistry. some can function like hobos all their life, some are legit miserable and in agony despite being able to slay hot women, having a ton of friends, a rich social life and a functional family. obv these are extremes, but you get the point
i have vast social experience and i have yet to meet a person who was miserable as fuck and then randomly got a girlfriend and/or a friend group and became a happy go lucky hippie, and vice versa, someone who was super happy with great romantic and social life, lost 1-2 close people and turned into a wreck
RE: the formula is so simple - Winyan Numpa - 16-06-2026
(16-06-2026, 07:47 PM)Altruist Wrote: not to relativize human needs and experience, but i think it all depends on your baseline brain chemistry. some can function like hobos all their life, some are legit miserable and in agony despite being able to slay hot women, having a ton of friends, a rich social life and a functional family. obv these are extremes, but you get the point
i have vast social experience and i have yet to meet a person who was miserable as fuck and then randomly got a girlfriend and/or a friend group and became a happy go lucky hippie, and vice versa, someone who was super happy with great romantic and social life, lost 1-2 close people and turned into a wreck
maslows strikes agen, never met anyone in those extremes tho
RE: the formula is so simple - Altruist - 16-06-2026
that's the opposite of my point, but ok
RE: the formula is so simple - Winyan Numpa - 16-06-2026
(16-06-2026, 07:50 PM)Altruist Wrote: that's the opposite of my point, but ok
yeh ik cuz i never met anyone in those extremes
RE: the formula is so simple - Altruist - 16-06-2026
i just used the extremes to get my point across easier, ffs. even though i legit know a few
RE: the formula is so simple - Winyan Numpa - 16-06-2026
(16-06-2026, 07:51 PM)Altruist Wrote: i just used the extremes to get my point across easier, ffs. even though i legit know a few
yeh i get ur point but theres usually resilience factors and prior imprinting in someones esteem
like certain ppl here life ascended objectively and still post bullshit saying thyre ugly cuz they grew up thinking it
have u heard phrase
if someone talks abt the mean and other argues for the outliers they r both right or some shit
RE: the formula is so simple - Altruist - 16-06-2026
(16-06-2026, 07:53 PM)Winyan Numpa Wrote: yeh i get ur point but theres usually resilience factors and prior imprinting in someones esteem
like certain ppl here life ascended objectively and still post bullshit saying thyre ugly cuz they grew up thinking it
have u heard phrase
if someone talks abt the mean and other argues for the outliers they r both right or some shit
this shit can linger in your mind, sure, but let's be blackpilled for a second - vast majority of those are estrogenic cucks begging for validation (and majority of those "objective ascensions" are just internet larps randoms choose to accept as true); you know those "once depressed" people who cant stop yapping about how happy they are now? yeah, that just means they got to the point where they are suicidal most of the time.
never heard of the phrase
RE: the formula is so simple - Winyan Numpa - 16-06-2026
(16-06-2026, 08:12 PM)Altruist Wrote: this shit can linger in your mind, sure, but let's be blackpilled for a second - vast majority of those are estrogenic cucks begging for validation (and majority of those "objective ascensions" are just internet larps randoms choose to accept as true)
never heard of the phrase
@mogs_me
he called u an estrogenic cuck
u gonna take it?
RE: the formula is so simple - hitlersblackedwaifu - 16-06-2026
you obviously need a substitute to those things, problem is nothing is good enough for you