[Aspie] Why do people say "just be nice they want to help you"

[numb digger]

Lol, no they don't.

Heard this so many times. They all fucking hate you, lmao. No exceptions.

[Mr Pill]

they want to kill you

[B00X]

No one wants to help me, only I can help myself but I am too incompetent

[Altruist]

Over for altruists

[numb digger]

they want to kill you

No one wants to help me, only I can help myself but I am too incompetent

Over for altruists

I've it so many times 


The other version is " I think this person hates me" And they reply "no they don't hate you lol" then they proceed to literally trying to murder you and stealing your shit

Fucking amazing how easily people can lie and feel no shame. Not that I'm not a liar, but I don't have any pretentions of being a good person

[B00X]

I've it so many times 


The other version is " I think this person hates me" And they reply "no they don't hate you lol" then they proceed to literally trying to murder you and stealing your shit

Fucking amazing how easily people can lie and feel no shame. Not that I'm not a liar, but I don't have any pretentions of being a good person

they want you to submit to them. they want the feeling of "owning you" they pretend to help and give you advice like a friend but they want to keep you below them.

[numb digger]

they want you to submit to them. they want the feeling of "owning you" they pretend to help and give you advice like a friend but they want to keep you below them.

I think it's more trying to keep the peace and not get involved tbh

Unfortunately I'm aspie as fuck so I can't take a hint

I follow a rule now that everyone hates me and has it in for me, and I'm correct like 100% of the time

That's why I limit interaction to this forum. Even discord is uncharted territory

[B00X]

I think it's more trying to keep the peace and not get involved tbh

Unfortunately I'm aspie as fuck so I can't take a hint

I follow a rule now that everyone hates me and has it in for me, and I'm correct like 100% of the time

That's why I limit interaction to this forum. Even discord is uncharted territory

true but there is a power dynamic at play as well. interact with whatever and whoever makes you comfortable, no point in trying new things atp. I have limited interactions as well, I dont even use discord anymore.

[Honest]

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Middle English (in the sense ‘stupid’): from Old French, from Latin nescius ‘ignorant’, from nescire ‘not know’. Other early senses included ‘coy, reserved’, giving rise to ‘fastidious, scrupulous’: this led both to the sense ‘fine, subtle’ (regarded by some as the ‘correct’ sense), and to the main current senses.