failed at socializing again: does it ever get better...

[hitlersblackedwaifu]

Just came back from a terrible small-talk session and getting ignored at a social gathering. Had to leave early, felt like shit.

Atp I have no hope for redemption. That's how it is, and it'll keep being like that for ever. Like the psychiatrist said, that's just my personality, and there's no cure or method of containment.

[B00X]

exactly, there is no escape.

[numb digger]

No, it doesn't 

Tell them all to rot in hell and cut all contact like I did with the shelter people

Trust me when I say they all talk massive shit behind your back.

People are gonna treat you like you're scum forever and look at you with contempt 

Isolate and realize only the people on this forums see you as a peer

Trying is only going to make you more confused and bitter

[numb digger]

That said there's some people I genuinely get along with, but they're massive losers like me. Not that I judge them for it

[hitlersblackedwaifu]

That said there's some people I genuinely get along with, but they're massive losers like me. Not that I judge them for it

I genuinely think it all happens because I'm a failure. If I had a successful career they'd either make it easy for me or I wouldn't give a fuck if they didn't. Or maybe I'm delusional.

[numb digger]

I genuinely think it all happens because I'm a failure. If I had a successful career they'd either make it easy for me or I wouldn't give a fuck if they didn't. Or maybe I'm delusional.

It's not what you do it's what you are tbh 

Don't beat yourself up over it

There's nothing you couldve done to prevent this




At the shelter they all treated me like I had fucking leprosy or something except my aunt who just felt bad for me lmao. If you're similar than just give up is the best advice 

Youre either too ugly/too aspie/too poor, or all the above. It is what it is

People are always going to turn on you talk shit and make backhanded remarks. Just forget about seeking social validation and give up completely on the idea of having more than 1 good irl friend (if ur lucky)

[machinelves]

i just dont talk bc when i open my mouth everyone realizes im a retarded aspie but when i smile and nod ppl just attribute random positive traits and r fine with me

[machinelves]

I genuinely think it all happens because I'm a failure. If I had a successful career they'd either make it easy for me or I wouldn't give a fuck if they didn't. Or maybe I'm delusional.

i think ur just delusional bc ur not rly a failure 

tjere r a bunch of hs dropouts with insane charisma/social charm

[Mr Pill]

it’s hard to be social if you’re not accustomed to larping as an extreme introvert 


I’m lucky I had an extremely charismatic Chad older brother to emulate

[Altruist]

it’s hard to be social if you’re not accustomed to larping as an extreme introvert 


I’m lucky I had an extremely charismatic Chad older brother to emulate

You are welcome

[alien sex]

you dont have it!

[Altruist]

Just came back from a terrible small-talk session and getting ignored at a social gathering. Had to leave early, felt like shit.

Atp I have no hope for redemption. That's how it is, and it'll keep being like that for ever. Like the psychiatrist said, that's just my personality, and there's no cure or method of containment.

Bro

[Mr Looks]

There is no C getting along with 90% of people

[Altruist]

There is no C getting along with 90% of people

Try being gl for a day

[Mr Looks]

Try being gl for a day

Looks has nothing to do with it brainlet. It's their cortisol and psychopathy/ego levels that count