02-09-2024, 02:04 AM
If 'just be yourself' worked, none of us would be here. The truth is, being yourself in a world that's designed to favor certain types of men doesn't cut it. You're told to be authentic, but if your authentic self isn't what's currently in vogue, you're out of luck. This advice is just a way for society to avoid acknowledging the real issues: that attraction isn't fair, it's not based on personality for most, and 'being yourself' often means being alone. It's like telling someone to run faster in a race where the track is rigged.
