[Aspie] a journal of breaking my NEETdom

[lonelyjak]

you dont really have to talk about vaccines to make friends
just be yourself. you don't have to find people with the same hobbies.

in fact having friends with different hobbies from you, makes it even more fun and gives you new perspective.

that's the thing right, a person is much more deeper than just hobbies, that personal bonding and emotional depth is not something u look for a person ONLY With your same hobbies.

take lookism for example, i would say me and kath (for example) have vastly different hobbies and thought processes yet we share different ideas and give new perspectives. same with any other forum u post on.

that makes it much more better. thats the whole human experience. no need to be so hostile towards people.

you just dont get it. a few things youre not considering:

1.im a NEET in my 30s. where do I go to make friends? I used to make random friends when I was much younger, harder to do the older you get. your mindset, energy etc all changes as you get older as well as your social environment and opportunities to meet new people

2.it takes two to tango. im open to meeting new friends, even people different than me, but people are not open to being my friend. I cant force people to be my friend. youre acting as if I have a choice here. this is like saying to a virgin incel: "just have sex bro"

find a job, take up a hobby or a class, at the bar, you can't expect to make friends with the mindset of "Oh I will never have friends". Just be open to it.

you didnt read what I wrote carefully enough. I said that ive made friends before, this isnt rocket science. the problem is a multitude of other factors. you just wouldnt get it because youre a zoomer, once you become a 30 something boomer you will understand better