until i befriended a black guy who btw is not bad looking at all but gets brutally rejected irl, girls being overtly racist to him and even admitting they’re racist etc
it’s actually pretty brutal how many times girls he hits on look over at me and then indicate to him that they’re more into me than him
yet i always try to explain to him that it’s nothing personal they just have past negative associations/preconceived notions with ppl who look like him
it’s actually pretty brutal how many times girls he hits on look over at me and then indicate to him that they’re more into me than him
yet i always try to explain to him that it’s nothing personal they just have past negative associations/preconceived notions with ppl who look like him
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