[Aspie] How do people have more than 2 children?

[10khitman]

define "fully love"

It's about the intimacy of family

with 3 children it feels chaotic, not connected, it feels, like I said, that it becomes a "horde" of children where you just give them resources and at least one of them will succeed. With 2 or 1, you can actually fully focus on both of them and give them all the support they need and make sure they succeed regardless, or at least do your genuine best. 

Connection = everything theory

this was very common back then, more than 4 children I mean. I have a more 'cold' view on this that cuts the whole romanticism. procreation is the way to eternalize by cloning the information that makes 'you.' for sure this doesn't justify some numbers, but then is there any other way to explain it?

I dont share ur strictly computational disposition to understanding things