is a bartender saying you too honey an ioi

[AlbanianLegend1994]

In Tennessee, no.
At your grandmother's house, no.
A bartender in Arizona (where you live), most likely.

It's difficult to say for certain without more context, but it's possible that the bartender is simply being friendly and polite. "You too, honey" is a common colloquial phrase that is often used as a casual way to respond to someone who says "take care." Without more information about the tone of voice, facial expressions, and body language of the bartender, it's difficult to say for certain whether or not the bartender is expressing interest in the patron.

(I know the source of this)

Basically what I originally told you

Jfl how I know everything

Having seen the context I would lean towards IOI but no way of really knowing