[Aspie] I used to be really outgoing and extroverted but not anymore

[lonelyjak]

It's ocd causing brain fog

I have it too

Women say they like my looks but not my personality

OCD causing brain fog? I dont get the connection here

and whats wrong with your personality, according to women?

I don't think I piss people off but I probably don't come across as interesting (i.e. good looking) enough for people to want to spend time with me with few exceptions.

In the past I put more effort into talking with people, going out and going to parties and such, and actually was more social as a result, but even then it was a constant exhausting effort of treading water with the next text or outing or party with not even any tangible reward (i.e. a girlfriend), so I gave up.


The way that people treat you and whether they want to associate with you is a direct function of your perceived status. If you are not good looking and male, your perceived status is naturally low.

feels! definitely with the bolded part

im decent looking as a male, ive never had problems with women. im like a weak chad-lite. I likely do have some kind of low perceived status, but I dont think it has to do with looks though