[Aspie] because of my intense aspieness I find NTness a highly attractive trait in girls

[lonelyjak]

i am the opposite. and i am not even giga NT, i prefer if the girl is more non NT than me

what? why, I want to understand your perspective. this is so different than me

cope

im an alpha male who will be in control, u are a beta male who want a competent girl to take control in social situation

>he still sees things through an alpha/beta male lense

nah, I desire constant improvement, therefore I seek out people/situations that can push me forward or help me to grow in some manner. also if autism has a genetic component then its probably a good thing to seek out a partner with NT genes who can help balance out my own autism

it sounds to me like youre punching down, youre taking the easy way out. metaphorically speaking, trying to hook up with aspie/less NT girls is the equivalent of a white guy dating an asian woman. you seek to be in control by playing on easy mode