28-04-2026, 09:14 AM
id say men do experience that too, obviously, since it is inbuilt code, and a characteristic in what is a whole mechanism of mimicking, beginning in the moment we open our eyes to this world, otherwise we would fail as species, so learning from reflexively copying others is useful... but, there is a difference in how this is manifest across the two genders, since there is a difference that everyone notices but cant quite point it out. so as i said, lets say that those who are feminine desire much more being the other, or, appearing to have a social status similar to the model being copied, and not the object itself. this is then something individual, as in how it is applied, and also more envious in a sense. men are different because it is more social or group oriented, particularly for what is of a distance, meanwhile what is closer will be more of what is threatening to their very self-perceived value or difference in being.
women seems to see each other as too similar, so the distance is nullified, thus they dont realize how weird and unrealistic it is to be envious of someone that lives in another country and that they can only see on screen. for men it seems that there is more of jealously than envy, which is, seeing the other person as a potential and direct rival in being and identity, which sets the potential resources as well. modern sports are pretty much a cathartic simulation or representation of what would be ancient rites of sacrifice or rivalry, thus the two groups, identical, but in a competition. the loss of one group is also a strengthening of social cohesion for the ones that are cheering for the group that Won.
women seems to see each other as too similar, so the distance is nullified, thus they dont realize how weird and unrealistic it is to be envious of someone that lives in another country and that they can only see on screen. for men it seems that there is more of jealously than envy, which is, seeing the other person as a potential and direct rival in being and identity, which sets the potential resources as well. modern sports are pretty much a cathartic simulation or representation of what would be ancient rites of sacrifice or rivalry, thus the two groups, identical, but in a competition. the loss of one group is also a strengthening of social cohesion for the ones that are cheering for the group that Won.
