would u date a girl that...

[mvp2]

You unfortunately realize that the human body is sort of disgusting, not just your own, that you've gotten used to. With every important process, the desire has to be so great that the negative emotions are overcome. It's never a utopic thing. And I believe it even stronger about the creative process. It is such torture and suffering that only the insane desire can produce art.

So, you need intense desire. Ideally not only sexual, but love. As love is the most irrational. The more your mind wanders off, the better. If you have a girl who you love intensely and she has a 'disgusting' pussy, you might delude yourself into thinking it's actually perfect. Perhaps...

i dont believe in love that isnt maternal (which is a simultaneity of storge and agape) but i agree that theres a mental component to sex thats above plain basal desire of flesh. sex not done for a purpose is an union of two in confusion, which can be embarrassing, regretful and lead to emptiness later on, albeit short lasting for some. this article tries to explain the multifactor of a sexual relation, and why the holistic purpose is important otherwise theres a problem, and while it is good enough, too i think it can be fair more simple. but, lets say that theres mental (air, thought; projected purpose) and that of the heart (fire, romance, imagination; sight) and that of the body (earth, sensual grounding; touch) - it is then the tuning for affinity of a synastry between two bodies and two spirits. if one of such aforementioned elements is in lack then the whole thing collapses, and a deliberate prolonging of the situation is what we call dysfunctional pairings. unfortunately i dont think theres affinity in the synastry for every possible pairing out there, but approximations, and as usual friction is something that people simply need to learn to deal with. in modern 'therapy' or psychology and social media culture theres a war on friction which leads to quitting and cancelling things abruptly, which is very weird to think about because what if those couples in friction (usually minor stuff) were the only possible existing approximation for the two