the underlying delusion behind "i want a virgin or a low bodycount gf/wife"

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Based. 

Weininger is worth reading as he addresses the topic in his book. Particularly in the chapters on motherhood and prostitution. The genius type would prefer the "prostitute" type.

But in a broader sense, any man is in any way abnormal should not expect to get a sweet tradwife. And should not even desire it.

The person you describe would be after the mother type. The one who wants to fully be devoted to her kids and husband.

i dont read fiction