C girl getting is impossible

[Ursa Major]

also this all legit and i didnt say much about how those conversations ended bc it isnt critical info but it was pretty much the first (1.) saying that she wanted me to die and that i was weird and boring and the second (2.) one saying that she would ruin my relationship by sending old screenshots to my girlfriend (now ex) and that i was a terrible person and the three (3.) was the only one that responded gently saying she wanted me to be happy and the relationship to go well 

also i dont understand what u mean by in group bias, obv theres like idk crazy ex situation where the guy will stalk/send weird messages and even physically hunt the woman but its usually an ex thing (and none of those happenings that i mentioned were of exes) and this isnt the same thing and happens regardless if they are dating or single - and well what happened to me and that ive seen people describing shortly as well is just very specific and much more weirder for men - u will actually have to invent some weird scenarios in your head to explain this hive minded envy bc the timing the behavior specially in contrast to how they act usually and everything about it is just so fucking weird kek