I have serious dislike for loud extroverts

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I meant speaking like a mumbling retard who is too lazy to open up his mouth to utter a word

ah yeah thats obv a failo/defect of the person
its pretty situational, there are situations that u need to be heard, so u gotta be loud. but in ordinary social situations, being loud means u want to be heard, being quieter makes people want to hear u, its a means of controlling the situation. one gives, the other takes