why rejection hurt so much

[kathisterima]

i had to reject a girl yesterday out of embarrassment bc she was too bad at communication. i was trying to arrange a date, she had already left the house to go to the place i had located but her timing was wrong. she phone called me crying and saying she wish i was dead, i calmed her down then said im sorry for any inconvience, she sent a msg saying 'u are rejecting me'? i said im sorry. people bad at communication and bad with timing throw me off, but i liked her