30-05-2022, 02:08 AM
To begin with I'm 23 yo rn and was living in an apartment alone up until a few months ago.
A 26 year old girl moved next to my apartment a month before I moved out. She ringed my bell one day and asked for my Wi-Fi password because it would take some time for her ISP to connect her.
Here's where the problem begins: while I talked to her at informal 2nd person singular, she kept referring to me in formality plural, as if I'm some older guy, meanwhile I'm clearly younger (I still go to uni and she knew it). She was talking to me as if I was hitting on her and she was giving me a signal that she's not interested.
It made me feel like shit, as if I was some creepy guy hitting on her and she was trying to shut me down. I still let her use my Wi-Fi for a long time even tho it made my net lag..
After that, when I bumped on her in the stairs she insisted on greeting me in plural and was always awkward and had a cringed out face as if I was causing her discomfort for the split second she had to lay her eyes on me.
And she wasn't an awkward person, not even a month in and she threw a party and some friends came over to her shitty apartment and one of them was a super tall BBC dude. Meanwhile I never even invited friends to my place throughout the 6 years I've lived by myself.
My mom says I'm overthinking this and she was just trying to be kind. I feel like she was probably not acting like this consciously, she most likely instantly forgot about the interactions, yet I am here making this thread.
A 26 year old girl moved next to my apartment a month before I moved out. She ringed my bell one day and asked for my Wi-Fi password because it would take some time for her ISP to connect her.
Here's where the problem begins: while I talked to her at informal 2nd person singular, she kept referring to me in formality plural, as if I'm some older guy, meanwhile I'm clearly younger (I still go to uni and she knew it). She was talking to me as if I was hitting on her and she was giving me a signal that she's not interested.
It made me feel like shit, as if I was some creepy guy hitting on her and she was trying to shut me down. I still let her use my Wi-Fi for a long time even tho it made my net lag..
After that, when I bumped on her in the stairs she insisted on greeting me in plural and was always awkward and had a cringed out face as if I was causing her discomfort for the split second she had to lay her eyes on me.
And she wasn't an awkward person, not even a month in and she threw a party and some friends came over to her shitty apartment and one of them was a super tall BBC dude. Meanwhile I never even invited friends to my place throughout the 6 years I've lived by myself.
My mom says I'm overthinking this and she was just trying to be kind. I feel like she was probably not acting like this consciously, she most likely instantly forgot about the interactions, yet I am here making this thread.
