the disilussionment of sex will get you more

[Achathin]

What if you Goon for hours but don't cum

Will this still create a magnetic pull for the ladies

its called edging

there is some literature like multi orgasmic man that says get close to ejaculation then grab your penis to stop it. builds up sexual energy and your ejaculation control

but the real point of doing this exercise is to learn how to feel sensation of orgasm without ejaculating and wasting energy 

the end goal is to have sex with women but not bust. you completely absorb her sexual energy. you get all the benefits of real sex without energy loss