27-11-2024, 02:30 PM
(27-11-2024, 02:18 PM)kathisterima Wrote: Ofc its not encouragement. They have lost faith in me and I understand it, I'm 26 and still studying.
But it gets to a point where you are actively avoiding them, putting your phone on airplane mode and not checking your email, in case they try to contact you and spike your cortisol. Because you 100% know they are gonna call only to whine about their issues, then whine some more about you being a failure.
Sorry about your brother. The lack of empathy and understanding some parents show is ridiculous. In my case I think they are just rly low IQ, and emotionally stunted. They cant change.
it's fucking tragic how quickly boomers write their kids off as failures, and of course it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. idk what the fuck is wrong with boomers... i mean, i feel sorry for my parents because they're kind of stupid and pathetic... but at the same time their stupidity, ignorance, and arrogance has lead to absolutely cataclysmic outcomes
hopefully you pass your exams with flying colors and they get off your back for a while
