[Aspie] IRL do you guys have people turn on you for no reason

[lonelyjak]

like ill literally just be giving normal responses/acting completely normally but ill have people just start giving me the cold shoulder or treating me poorly etc. im pretty sure its not a body language thing, its literally like an intangible vibe that I give off, its the weirdest thing

[Honest]

[lonelyjak]

is this what autists experience? idk, im familiar with autism but damn, sometimes it seems like im not doing anything at all and this shit still happens

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

Usually those people already have their social circle and they perceive you as just some outsider, it seems cruel, but it is what it is. They don't need you because they are already adequately socialized so probably they are trying to get rid of you in a socially acceptable way.

[Eesharebba]

westerners and westernized people are shit.no need to write elaborate theories.

[AntonioJuraz]

people usually either like or dislike me from minute 1 and don't randomly change their opinion

[bloodshore]

I don't keep long enough relationships with people to notice it

[lonelyjak]

Usually those people already have their social circle and they perceive you as just some outsider, it seems cruel, but it is what it is. They don't need you because they are already adequately socialized so probably they are trying to get rid of you in a socially acceptable way.

this is a really good insight, I never saw it that way before. I dont think it applies 100% to my situation but I can definitely see times where that was the case

the irony is that I dont want to make new friends either, so in these situations I was always being polite with no further intentions of building a relationship, but they didnt realize this. it makes me mad that I ended up getting socially rejected in some manner when I was just going through the motions to begin with

westerners and westernized people are shit.no need to write elaborate theories.

something interesting ive noticed is that I dont get along with super pro-western foreigners either. initially I suspected that maybe I have some personality defect which is unique to me, which I think is probably true, but then I realized that theres an external, circumstantial component as well. not only do I not mesh with many western people but I also have this intrinsic disconnect with foreigners that love the west as well

people usually either like or dislike me from minute 1 and don't randomly change their opinion

I don't keep long enough relationships with people to notice it

why is this?

[bloodshore]

Usually those people already have their social circle and they perceive you as just some outsider, it seems cruel, but it is what it is. They don't need you because they are already adequately socialized so probably they are trying to get rid of you in a socially acceptable way.

this is a really good insight, I never saw it that way before. I dont think it applies 100% to my situation but I can definitely see times where that was the case

the irony is that I dont want to make new friends either, so in these situations I was always being polite with no further intentions of building a relationship, but they didnt realize this. it makes me mad that I ended up getting socially rejected in some manner when I was just going through the motions to begin with

westerners and westernized people are shit.no need to write elaborate theories.

something interesting ive noticed is that I dont get along with super pro-western foreigners either. initially I suspected that maybe I have some personality defect which is unique to me, which I think is probably true, but then I realized that theres an external, circumstantial component as well. not only do I not mesh with many western people but I also have this intrinsic disconnect with foreigners that love the west as well

people usually either like or dislike me from minute 1 and don't randomly change their opinion

I don't keep long enough relationships with people to notice it

why is this?

Dunno. Don't like normies and their worldviews. And i rather be alone, socializing is exhausting

[Zeus]

Failo effect from your looks

[lonelyjak]

Dunno. Don't like normies and their worldviews. And i rather be alone, socializing is exhausting

thats cool that you get to end things on your terms. im always the one getting shut out and it feels really undignified. these days I dont bother socializing much because of this, but I only wish I had started doing this earlier

Failo effect from your looks

no, I actually do ok with women

[Eesharebba]

Usually those people already have their social circle and they perceive you as just some outsider, it seems cruel, but it is what it is. They don't need you because they are already adequately socialized so probably they are trying to get rid of you in a socially acceptable way.

this is a really good insight, I never saw it that way before. I dont think it applies 100% to my situation but I can definitely see times where that was the case

the irony is that I dont want to make new friends either, so in these situations I was always being polite with no further intentions of building a relationship, but they didnt realize this. it makes me mad that I ended up getting socially rejected in some manner when I was just going through the motions to begin with

westerners and westernized people are shit.no need to write elaborate theories.

something interesting ive noticed is that I dont get along with super pro-western foreigners either. initially I suspected that maybe I have some personality defect which is unique to me, which I think is probably true, but then I realized that theres an external, circumstantial component as well. not only do I not mesh with many western people but I also have this intrinsic disconnect with foreigners that love the west as well

people usually either like or dislike me from minute 1 and don't randomly change their opinion

I don't keep long enough relationships with people to notice it

why is this?

I have found european(especially dutch or italian or spaniard) women to be great.many are wife material and they're really beautiful.there being NT is just be more high class.

amerimutts are negrofied and mostly white trash with no identity except artificial ones and no culture,so they adopt the negro culture more and degeneracy more imo.

I have alot of third world friends on fb and theyre more humble,down to earth and chill.simple minded but thats a good thing in alot of cases imo.Im talking the females too.

they also have lower looks standards.

[Noonz]

only if they're mentally ill retards like this one girl I used to know. it's usually the other way around. 

people generally like me

[psychoman]

no but jb turns me on