how? honestly, how?

[Altruist]

> i go outside to buy one more l of wine (not really relevant, just saying it for context)
> i see a femoid with a perfect ass (18 - 20 yo, she was wearing grey tights and obvious thongs; i dont even remember her face) and get a mixed adrenaline-dopamine-cortisol spike
> instead of smashing the bottle to the ground, going back home and starting the self-improver arc ... i just turn youtube and this forum on and indulge in a billionth cringe daydreaming rotting session

how is this possible? what's wrong with me? not even saying this should trigger me to go full retard, david goggins style about it, but it should still be motivating enough to change something and not make the same mistake again

earth made the same thread before. so spot on and tragic

[Altruist]

ass = meaning of life. it's that simple

[Altruist]

Understood. Here’s a professional and strategic breakdown:

1. Self-awareness and confidence: Knowing your preference is important, but you should avoid letting it dominate your attraction to the point of ignoring personality, intelligence, or compatibility. Confidence in your preferences is fine, but it works best when paired with genuine interest in the person as a whole.
   
2. Dating approach: If you’re meeting women in person or online, your profile, conversation, and body language should balance physical attraction with intellectual and emotional compatibility. Fetishizing a single physical trait can come across as superficial if not handled carefully.
   
3. Communication: If this preference becomes relevant in a relationship context, honesty is key—but frame it respectfully. Compliments about their body should be paired with recognition of other qualities.
   
4. Attraction vs. obsession: It’s fine to have a “type,” but becoming fixated can limit your opportunities. Broaden your view while staying true to your preferences.
   
5. Social dynamics: Physical attraction is an entry point, but emotional and intellectual connections sustain relationships. Women tend to respond more positively if they feel seen and valued beyond appearance.
   

If you want, I can also give specific strategies for meeting and attracting women who fit your type without coming across as superficial. Do you want me to do that?

[kathisterima]

being tipsy 24/7 > ass

[Mr Looks]

Holy neanderthal

[Altruist]

Holy neanderthal

[Altruist]

being tipsy 24/7 > ass

i wish i could tell myself that

[superiorpisspot234]

Neanderthals = beneath apes

[ΛΟΓΟΣ]

ass = meaning of life. it's that simple

bunda

[Busty Doll]

A thong underneath leggings?

Leggings have a lifting effect often

[Busty Doll]

> instead of smashing the bottle to the ground, going back home and starting the self-improver arc ...

How are the 2 related. I thought you were gonna say: "I'm kicking myself for not chatting to her."

Remember the fat guy that used to coach at RSD, Luke I think. His obesity wouldn't stand in the way of him Opening Sets.


What I do usually is run an imagined dialog: "Oh hi. Were you born in 2006?" -"No. Why?" 

and then I realize I got nothing in terms of material, so it's okay that I didn't approach.

[Bojack]

should've grabbed that ass boyo, now you're just an incel forever !

[Arrogans]

You got so fat that it has even come to a level of being unacceptably fat in a country where the threshold of how much fat is acceptable is pretty much the highest in Europe (if you don't count Turkey). I am not judging you though, addiction is one hell of a thing, suddenly stopping any alcohol intake has insane levels of effect on your body and mind. I won't be overly delusional but if some miraculous event where you just get some ancient David Goggins motivation doesn't happen you will either 1. drink yourself to death or 2. drink yourself to some extreme health issue that will result in an early death, these two are very alike.

My father was an alcoholic (at peak pretty much the same tier as yourself) and the reason why he stopped (or actually tried) was because he realized he was pretty much actively ruining my life at the time (alongside my mother), long story short eventually the extreme withdrawal symptoms had taken him to a hospital, that was the breaking point where his side of the family got involved and rehab eventually got him sober.

Considering your mother does not seem like a huge factor in you getting sober, and you don't have any kids or a wife I think you dropping your job and going to rehab (like the whole rehab spa center) is your best bet.

[Busty Doll]

Saw some guy digging a ditch and he had a huge belly

How does a professional manual laborer get fat like that

[Arrogans]

Saw some guy digging a ditch and he had a huge belly

How does a professional manual laborer get fat like that

half a bread with tons of mayo and high fat salami etc, really makes you satiated tbh