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 I get insulted online about 10 times a day
#1
I get insulted online about 10 times a day.

Everytime I get insulted online it's also completly unprovoked/for no reason

There is something about me that attracts bullies, atleast online. Perhaps its because I am being myself/genuine and I dont self-censor in order to avoid being judged as "weird" by normies?
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Or perhaps I attract bullies online because I am HUMBLE n Non-Narcy n Non-Obnoxiois and therefore I dont fit in into the "normal way of being" (Narcy n Obnoxious)

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#3
I dont mind if people insult me to my face but I really dislike if they insult me behind my back.
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(04-06-2022, 08:25 PM)Bookist Wrote: I get insulted online about 10 times a day.

Everytime I get insulted online it's also completly unprovoked/for no reason

There is something about me that attracts bullies, atleast online. Perhaps its because I am being myself/genuine and I dont self-censor in order to avoid being judged as "weird" by normies?


It could be owing to many intings. Some folk could insult you just because they don't like your threads, or even for shallower intings. The thing is, it's better to not take them seriously and move on. It can feel painful of you overthink what they say.
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(04-06-2022, 11:37 PM)noi_avorrit Wrote:
(04-06-2022, 08:25 PM)Bookist Wrote: I get insulted online about 10 times a day.

Everytime I get insulted online it's also completly unprovoked/for no reason

There is something about me that attracts bullies, atleast online. Perhaps its because I am being myself/genuine and I dont self-censor in order to avoid being judged as "weird" by normies?


It could be owing to many intings. Some folk could insult you just because they don't like your threads, or even for shallower intings. The thing is, it's better to not take them seriously and move on. It can feel painful of you overthink what they say.

I am HSP (Highly Sensitive Person) bhai'

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sensory_processing_sensitivity

Sensory processing sensitivity (SPS) is a temperamental or personality trait involving "an increased sensitivity of the central nervous system and a deeper cognitive processing of physical, social and emotional stimuli".[2] The trait is characterized by "a tendency to 'pause to check' in novel situations, greater sensitivity to subtle stimuli, and the engagement of deeper cognitive processing strategies for employing coping actions, all of which is driven by heightened emotional reactivity, both positive and negative".[3]
A human with a particularly high measure of SPS is considered to have "hypersensitivity", or be a highly sensitive person (HSP).[2][3] The terms SPS and HSP were coined in the mid-1990s by psychologists Elaine Aron and her husband Arthur Aron, who developed the Highly Sensitive Person Scale (HSPS) questionnaire by which SPS is measured.[3] Other researchers have applied various other terms to denote this responsiveness to stimuli that is seen in humans and other species.[4]
According to the Arons and colleagues, people with high SPS make up about 15–20% of the population.[2] Although some researchers consistently related high SPS to negative outcomes,[3][5] other researchers have associated it with increased responsiveness to both positive and negative influences.[6][7][8][9] Aron and colleagues state that the high-SPS personality trait is not a disorder



Quote:A highly sensitive person (HSP) is a person having the innate trait of high sensitivity (or innate sensitiveness as Carl Jung originally coined it). According to Elaine N. Aron and colleagues as well as other researchers, highly sensitive people, who comprise about a fifth of the population, process sensory data much more deeply and thoroughly due to a biological difference in their nervous systems.[1] This is a specific trait with key consequences that in the past has often been confused with innate shyness, inhibitedness, innate fearfulness, introversion, and so on.[2] The existence of the trait of innate sensitivity was demonstrated using a test that was shown to have both internal and external validity.[3] Although the term is primarily used to describe humans, the trait is present in nearly all higher animals.
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