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06-07-2022, 11:11 PM
This is pretty common for autists. The dark reality is that you’re just too unaware to see the negs that come your way. No one respects you and no one really wants you around. Your role is the group punching bag. You are a dispensable hanger-on.
For extremely aware people such as myself, who have self-respect and can’t allow themselves to be the group’s punching bag, this makes socialising very difficult. Also, because people can sense my alphaness, they are afraid to neg me, which means that they don't want you around.
Ah, if only I was so unaware to believe that I was a social boss, all while I was bullied and spat at by my normie “friends”. Ignorance is bliss, and some of you are proof of that.
This is why I can only hang out with a select group of people who all have hearts of gold. I care for them and know that they care for me.
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TRUE. .. if u gotta be a "people pleaser" then most people probably don't really enjoy your company much.
Either find your group, find your place, or don't bother trying to fit in where you don't belong unless u want CHAOS or humilation. This is why I avoid "friends at work" Also, posts mog reps anyways, so negging is moot mostly overall.
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I'm extremely confrontational all the time for no reason.
The most comical time was on an airplane, the attendant said: "So, we'll be having pork chops."
-"And, is there an alternative?"
"No, that is what we're serving."
-"So then why are you telling me this."
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i realized this early on tqbh
i'm the most hated. people either despise me or feel bad for me, but nobody likes me
it's actually insane how i have been mistreated lol. like, beyond insane. i should make a modern day tragedy loosely based on my life.
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Sounds like a you problem. People tell me out of the blue that I have good social skills.
And normies talk shit about everyone behind their back. If you are the 'social boss', people are gonna talk more shit about you due to resentment.
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i dont have autism, im socially inept because i lack experiences
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i play it safe and cut off everyone before they can hurt me tbh
every interaction i have with other people feels like a humiliation
i know im hated. what can i really do? im far from the worst person alive tbh
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everyone talks shit about eachother. friends, work colleagues, parents everyone talks shit about eachother
life is just some retarded social game that has no real end goal just goals along the way to death