u should be selective abt who u give grace to

[Winyan Numpa]

otherwise ur just destroying yourself and letting yourself get eaten by the maggots 

the moment people sense that u want to reach down to their level they will start trampling on u

ppl will do anything to try to maximize the very little power they have against u to its fullest, i have never once done this in my life as far as i can recall 

i dont even understand what has to go through the head of someone devoid of any prospects to randomly start berating a stranger. ppl do this in covert ways too such as letting their pitbulls lunge at innocent dogs or kill other dogs etc