[Aspie] I used to be really outgoing and extroverted but not anymore

[lonelyjak]

but for some reason I piss everyone off, without even trying. its always been that way and I have no idea what it is. I guess im saying/doing/having some sort of body language which makes people mad

you ever met someone that pisses you off and you dont know why? like they're not even doing anything wrong? yeah, im that guy

anyways, ive been beat up by life so many times that im no longer social, nor do I bother talking much to people when im in a social situation. somehow I always say or do the wrong thing and it just turns out badly. its just weird tbh, like I have some shitty vibe or something

[Eesharebba]

It's ocd causing brain fog

I have it too

Women say they like my looks but not my personality

[FatalFlaw]

I don't think I piss people off but I probably don't come across as interesting (i.e. good looking) enough for people to want to spend time with me with few exceptions.

In the past I put more effort into talking with people, going out and going to parties and such, and actually was more social as a result, but even then it was a constant exhausting effort of treading water with the next text or outing or party with not even any tangible reward (i.e. a girlfriend), so I gave up.

but for some reason I piss everyone off, without even trying. its always been that way and I have no idea what it is. I guess im saying/doing/having some sort of body language which makes people mad

you ever met someone that pisses you off and you dont know why? like they're not even doing anything wrong? yeah, im that guy

anyways, ive been beat up by life so many times that im no longer social, nor do I bother talking much to people when im in a social situation. somehow I always say or do the wrong thing and it just turns out badly. its just weird tbh, like I have some shitty vibe or something

The way that people treat you and whether they want to associate with you is a direct function of your perceived status. If you are not good looking and male, your perceived status is naturally low.

[lonelyjak]

It's ocd causing brain fog

I have it too

Women say they like my looks but not my personality

OCD causing brain fog? I dont get the connection here

and whats wrong with your personality, according to women?

I don't think I piss people off but I probably don't come across as interesting (i.e. good looking) enough for people to want to spend time with me with few exceptions.

In the past I put more effort into talking with people, going out and going to parties and such, and actually was more social as a result, but even then it was a constant exhausting effort of treading water with the next text or outing or party with not even any tangible reward (i.e. a girlfriend), so I gave up.


The way that people treat you and whether they want to associate with you is a direct function of your perceived status. If you are not good looking and male, your perceived status is naturally low.

feels! definitely with the bolded part

im decent looking as a male, ive never had problems with women. im like a weak chad-lite. I likely do have some kind of low perceived status, but I dont think it has to do with looks though

[Eesharebba]

It's ocd causing brain fog

I have it too

Women say they like my looks but not my personality

OCD causing brain fog? I dont get the connection here

and whats wrong with your personality, according to women?

I don't think I piss people off but I probably don't come across as interesting (i.e. good looking) enough for people to want to spend time with me with few exceptions.

In the past I put more effort into talking with people, going out and going to parties and such, and actually was more social as a result, but even then it was a constant exhausting effort of treading water with the next text or outing or party with not even any tangible reward (i.e. a girlfriend), so I gave up.


The way that people treat you and whether they want to associate with you is a direct function of your perceived status. If you are not good looking and male, your perceived status is naturally low.

feels! definitely with the bolded part

im decent looking as a male, ive never had problems with women. im like a weak chad-lite. I likely do have some kind of low perceived status, but I dont think it has to do with looks though

Im autistic and shy in real life