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surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a one way ticket to self destruction - Arrogans - 02-11-2025
the only way you can somehow have a "happy" life if you have sub chad dopamine receptors is to surround yourself with ambitious people (big bonus if they aren't ugly) that aren't miserable, this is why being a sports guy is so great, dont know how it was for other people but 98% of the time i was out playing sports all the guys there were just 0 cortisol and in a good mood, on the other hand some of my childhood friends became incel rotters and they are literal energy vampires these days, they can't even fake being non miserable for a few fucking hours when you hang out, i get really annoyed by this because i know how it is to be miserable and i never acted like billie eilish in front of other people on a hangout that i was invited to and it was my choice to accept it, just tell me you are dying and u cant go out instead of doing this smh.
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Ursa Major - 02-11-2025
ure absolutely right that
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - RenXuan88 - 02-11-2025
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RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Ursa Major - 02-11-2025
(02-11-2025, 05:29 PM)RenXuan88 Wrote:
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Ursa Major - 02-11-2025
unironically this is an astrological thing and not much to do with subhumanity/rotting
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Arrogans - 02-11-2025
(02-11-2025, 05:29 PM)RenXuan88 Wrote:
blonde JB killing a jewish prince
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Arrogans - 02-11-2025
(02-11-2025, 05:31 PM)Ursa Major Wrote: unironically this is an astrological thing and not much to do with subhumanity/rotting
wdym?
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Ursa Major - 02-11-2025
(02-11-2025, 05:33 PM)Arrogans Wrote: wdym?
earth signs tend to be the former, water tends to be the latter
ive noticed in my very personal life how different the elements of those signs are because ive been surrounded by them since ever and when i got to think better about their signs i realized a pattern that isnt explained by life circumstances (also because im water myself so engaging metacognition and noticing how annoying i am is funny)
to put it bluntly earth signs tend to be spiritual chads pretty much, in fact the two people that i know, who are pretty much childhood friends, have had very unfortunate circumstances and one of them grew up to be a rotter despite we playing football and doing skate as kids/teens, however ive never seen them complaining, they are pretty much no-nonsense, no whining, no cry regardless of how hurt, stable and just the sort of people that get shit done you know - fire signs are similar in some sense but they are not stable (and some other differences that isnt relevant here)
meanwhile water signs are usually pretty annoying and whiny and have that emotional vampire thing to them that you mentioned. ive two of them as friends since early teens and they both had their lives handled to them yet they still managed to fail by actively shutting down some opportunities, such as one that could have become a successful military and have great life, but instead just acted depressed and turned out to be a full a druggie/heavy escapist and degenerate in the end, and ive seen him crying at least two times (never seen earth or fire signs doing this) - the other also complains heavily and just straight up abandoned social life despite looking good and decided to rot
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Altruist - 02-11-2025
^ cage
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - RenXuan88 - 02-11-2025
(02-11-2025, 06:16 PM)Ursa Major Wrote: earth signs tend to be the former, water tends to be the latter
ive noticed in my very personal life how different the elements of those signs are because ive been surrounded by them since ever and when i got to think better about their signs i realized a pattern that isnt explained by life circumstances (also because im water myself so engaging metacognition and noticing how annoying i am is funny)
to put it bluntly earth signs tend to be spiritual chads pretty much, in fact the two people that i know, who are pretty much childhood friends, have had very unfortunate circumstances and one of them grew up to be a rotter despite we playing football and doing skate as kids/teens, however ive never seen them complaining, they are pretty much no-nonsense, no whining, no cry regardless of how hurt, stable and just the sort of people that get shit done you know - fire signs are similar in some sense but they are not stable (and some other differences that isnt relevant here)
meanwhile water signs are usually pretty annoying and whiny and have that emotional vampire thing to them that you mentioned. ive two of them as friends since early teens and they both had their lives handled to them yet they still managed to fail by actively shutting down some opportunities, such as one that could have become a successful military and have great life, but instead just acted depressed and turned out to be a full a druggie/heavy escapist and degenerate in the end, and ive seen him crying at least two times (never seen earth or fire signs doing this) - the other also complains heavily and just straight up abandoned social life despite looking good and decided to rot
what's my sign parca?
15/10/2006
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Ursa Major - 02-11-2025
(02-11-2025, 06:31 PM)RenXuan88 Wrote: what's my sign parca?
15/10/2006
libra - air signs are more concerned with 'mental/intellectual' and aesthetic/fashion things, but usually kind of superficial/ambiguous/ambivalent people
tho i dont have much personal info on them aside gemini. if u have ur birth hour u can datamine urself and have a more indepth info (since itll be ur full chart)
dont obsess over this bc its kinda redundant to do so, but basically use astroseek if ure interested
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - AlbanianLegend1994 - 02-11-2025
Even the most purported mentally sane person in North America looks like an asylum patient next to someone who lives on a remote Greek island with a total population of 156 people and 0 tourists
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Bojack - 03-11-2025
Surrounding yourself with negative fuckers is a great thing
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Arrogans - 03-11-2025
(02-11-2025, 11:15 PM)AlbanianLegend1994 Wrote: Even the most purported mentally sane person in North America looks like an asylum patient next to someone who lives on a remote Greek island with a total population of 156 people and 0 tourists
is there more of those?
RE: surrounding yourself with miserable people with sub chad dopamine receptors is a o... - Bojack - 03-11-2025
(02-11-2025, 11:15 PM)AlbanianLegend1994 Wrote: Even the most purported mentally sane person in North America looks like an asylum patient next to someone who lives on a remote Greek island with a total population of 156 people and 0 tourists
North America is a joke neeguh tbh