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being "nice" to people because your social standing is utter garbage doesnt count - Altruist - 01-11-2025
it's just being subservient.
just cage at absolute losers telling themselves that sob story about the world being unfair and nice people getting treated like shit while "assholes" are thriving
for behavior to be classified as nice, the person has to have an actual option to be dismissive or cold to others without any repercussions
RE: being "nice" to people because your social standing is utter garbage doesnt count - I Already Know I'm Ugly - 01-11-2025
he’s right @
Us nice guys have to start crashing out
RE: being "nice" to people because your social standing is utter garbage doesnt count - Altruist - 01-11-2025
(01-11-2025, 08:48 PM)I Already Know I'm Ugly Wrote: he’s right @Bojack
Us nice guys have to start crashing out
it's not just him, i hear this crap all the time
reminds me of those people who cant stop telling everyone that they are too good and empathetic and that everyone is taking advantage of them. you just know you are dealing with an insufferable piece of shit with no integrity whatsoever when someone hits you with that without anyone even asking
RE: being "nice" to people because your social standing is utter garbage doesnt count - Darkeningstar - 01-11-2025
Good thread
RE: being "nice" to people because your social standing is utter garbage doesnt count - freddie - 02-11-2025
Was thinking about this earlier
It hits different when someone is nice to you and they have literally no reason to be (not obligated by their job or pressure from other people)
Though, I suppose there's a difference between a random act of kindness from a stranger and knowing someone for a while
I remember at the shelter who my aunt on my mom's side runs, she/one of her sisters had some adopted kid who was 6'10" and psl 5.5 and worked for the cops. He wouldn't even acknowledge my existence lmao. They all went out of their way for him, though. And you can tell they actually considered him part of their family where as with me they wanted me to gtfo asap
Sucks having a narcy drug addicted pedophile for a dad. What did that autistic fuckwit expect when he reproduced?
RE: being "nice" to people because your social standing is utter garbage doesnt count - Ursa Major - 02-11-2025
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RE: being "nice" to people because your social standing is utter garbage doesnt count - freddie - 02-11-2025
I thank the bus drivers but the bus drivers never thank me
They do for the pretty girls though (Rare on busses but it happens)
RE: being "nice" to people because your social standing is utter garbage doesnt count - freddie - 02-11-2025
Thinking back to high-school, I was on the bottom of the totem pole and not a single person was nice to me. The exact opposite, even. Some exceptions were people who found me hilarious and people who felt sorry for me
Though If I was in their shoes I would make fun of me too
I'm a subhuman!
RE: being "nice" to people because your social standing is utter garbage doesnt count - eldajaal1488 - 02-11-2025
yeah obviously
RE: being "nice" to people because your social standing is utter garbage doesnt count - Busty Doll - 02-11-2025
Vlad Obuzic talked about this in a recent vlog
He said basically You never know what people would do if they got rich