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How was I depressed at 19 years old? - Dreckssau - 19-08-2025
The age I joined lookism.
In retrospective, every problem seems solveable. Everything that seemed "impossible" then seems possible now.
Youth really doesn't matter, I believe. Who cares if you had a bad youth? All that matters is how you react to it later.
I think that, contrary to what Hollywood slop tells us, the teenage years aren't supposed to be fun. That's why all the "teenagers" in Hollywood movies are actors in their mid 20's, sometimes 30's.
At 19, you should have a strong resistance to depression. You really need to cope. Coping is a good thing.
The last thing you should cate about at that age is how you look, besides the obvious aspect of taking cate about your appearance.
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - kathisterima - 19-08-2025
why are you lying to yourself
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - MVP - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 01:30 AM)kathisterima Wrote: why are you lying to yourself
The subhuman is your age
He should compete with u, Not with me
Ofc ITS Just theoretical, since my apprentices are much smarter than such freaks
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - Mr Looks - 19-08-2025
pls reaffirm me aah thread
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - Dreckssau - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 01:30 AM)kathisterima Wrote: why are you lying to yourself
Oh, it's so much better to give in to a depressive mindset. I've been through such intense depression and feelings of total meaninglessness, that I can see the prison I'm in, without being able to fully escape it.
You on the other hand are in the prison, while not even being aware of the fact that you are in a prison. So, you are the one lying to yourself. The depressive mindset always provides a convenient excuse. People who believe that their depressive mindset is objective reality are the most delusional people on earth.
Think of how many generations of humans gave survived. Imagine if they all had a doomer mindset. Clearly, there are plenty of things to be depressed about, at the same time one has to handle it and deal with it.
That's why I have more respect for drug users than people who let depression control their life. It's better to be a junkie than a "depressive".
And yes, coping is always the strategy.
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - Dreckssau - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 01:39 AM)Mr Looks Wrote: pls reaffirm me aah thread
Bullshit. I write this as a warning to the people still in that age range.
Nothing can change the past. And the opinion of an anonymous user who barely knows anything about me, certainly won't change how I feel.
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - machinelves - 19-08-2025
bad youth sets the stage for rotten adulthood ngl. coping doesnt change the scenery and situation at all, it just makes u stagnant and attached to meainglsss things. ya its true most ppl r copers but they just set up the next gen of depressives that will need to cope so on and so forth. if u r ugly in youth u will carry it with u unless u reprogram ur mind in adulthood. phantasms of the past will always follow.
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - kathisterima - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 01:38 AM)MVP Wrote: The subhuman is your age
He should compete with u, Not with me
Ofc ITS Just theoretical, since my apprentices are much smarter than such freaks
what's funny is you are somewhat on the same page with him regarding this topic
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - Dreckssau - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 04:25 PM)machinelves Wrote: bad youth sets the stage for rotten adulthood ngl. coping doesnt change the scenery and situation at all, it just makes u stagnant and attached to meainglsss things. ya its true most ppl r copers but they just set up the next gen of depressives that will need to cope so on and so forth. if u r ugly in youth u will carry it with u unless u reprogram ur mind in adulthood. phantasms of the past will always follow.
Not really. A bad youth can be beneficial to you, even if it leaves you feeling depressed.
It's just a question of whether or not you react to it like a man and grow from it, or whether you'll stay a boy forever.
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - Dreckssau - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 05:00 PM)kathisterima Wrote: what's funny is you are somewhat on the same page with him regarding this topic
What is it that he agrees with me on? I don't read his threads.
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - kathisterima - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 05:15 PM)Dreckssau Wrote: What is it that he agrees with me on? I don't read his threads.
well maybe you should
RE: How was I depressed at 19 years old? - Dreckssau - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 05:20 PM)kathisterima Wrote: well maybe you should
I'd rather be in the human centipede with indians.