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ramble: online dating is blackpilling, but for the wrong reasons (mostly) - mogs_me - 15-06-2025
i moved out recently at the ripe age of 26, and decided it was time to give online dating a try. living with my parents was my main excuse for not trying this sooner, it was never really about looks although that definitely isn't helping me
i had actually already set up a hinge profile earlier a few months ago, and set it to some where far away from me in a remote, average income area. i got decent results and got some matches with decent looking girls who i clicked with to some extent, but obviously didn't try to set anything up as i was half way across the country from them. i figured that these results would translate to my current location, but i was so wrong
i currently live in a wealthy and fairly urban/suburban part of the country, and this changes things up entirely. all of these girls are legit npc clones of each other. you can tell they've never paid for anything in their lives and have no expectation to do so ever. it feels like there's no point even talking to them as someone who makes an average salary. i have a white collar office job in engineering at a respectable company but i make the least money out of anyone i know. it doesn't even make sense tbh, waitresses, hr ladies, plumbers, accountants, freelancers, literally everyone somehow is fking rich and makes a shit ton of money except for me, it's crazy really. i have friends who are already making 300k or even millions yearly. i guess non-computer engineering is just a dead occupation.
in addition i am an objectively boring person in a game where everyone is trying their hardest to be interesting
if you dont have 500 hobbies and havent traveled to 100+ countries, forget about it
it's funny they all pride themselves on stuff like this but all have the same exact prompts
hinge prompts:
-first round is on me if: im using your card. HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA hilarious!
-i go crazy for: biceps, tattoos, mustaches. i swear it's only one of these 3 things or a mix. seriously why are these retarded women obsessed with ugly ass tattoos both on themselves and men. fucking cringe
-send me a playlist, send me your favorite song, send me what you think a song i would like is. fucking stupid, music is for fags. i dont think ive listened to music in 3 years, i drive around in silence. listening to music is actually the most woman shit ever idk why they project this personality trait as necessary onto men
-i cant shut up about: "anything! im a yapper!" kill yourself.
i coudl go on but it's clear these women effectively have their personality downloaded from instagram
you probably read all this shit and think it's self-inflicted (i.e. go work out more, get some tattoos, grow a mustache, get a better paying job, go get some cool hobbies and start listening to music). kind of fair but the point is im an autistic retard and doing these things are incredibly painful or impossible for me. why cant there just be average middle class girls who are also autistic and whose only hobbies consist of rotting, having sex with deformed lanklets, and occasionally going for a hike? life is unfair
anyways the point is i don't think my looks are holding me back entirely, i can get matches with decently attractive girls (maybe with small help of heightpill, but from the prompts i see even fkin mustaches are more important than height), but once i start talking with them, i realize that i have nothing at all in common with them, and also cant "afford" them. sure if i was gigachad it wouldnt matter and they would be begging to suck my cawk but i still wouldn't want anything to do with them. also there seems to be a serious issue with commitment when it comes to actually setting up dates, women will talk and act like they like u, but as soon as u suggest meeting up they get cold feet. whether this is exclusively because i'm ugly or partially because they are just on the apps mostly for attention, im unsure. but why even match and try to get attention from an ugly guy then? idk
not really sure where im going with this i think this is all i have to say for now
RE: ramble: online dating is blackpilling, but for the wrong reasons (mostly) - n9wiff - 15-06-2025
Not sure how it is there but my Dad didn't make squat as an Engineer till he moved on to management
RE: ramble: online dating is blackpilling, but for the wrong reasons (mostly) - eldajaal1488 - 15-06-2025
(15-06-2025, 05:18 AM)mogs_me Wrote: why cant there just be average middle class girls who are also autistic and whose only hobbies consist of rotting, having sex with deformed lanklets, and occasionally going for a hike? life is unfair
RE: ramble: online dating is blackpilling, but for the wrong reasons (mostly) - ΛΟΓΟΣ - 15-06-2025
i can kinda relate
i am not able to compete in the big cities of my state at all, and i am not even unattractive, those people are just rich asf and have way more experiences than me in every single thing, and that includes travelling to 3+ different countries by the time they are 25 or smth
i have already outlined how important location and socioeconomic status is important in contributing to loneliness and inceldom overall, way more than looks. whenever i see a short and ugly guy with an attractive goth gorl i just know that guy is somehow way more interesting than me because of his location + background in life, normies are in another existence altogether, and that begins with their parents
so two lessons to you, parents are the base, they are the basis of whether your reality will suck or not, and the other one is that women are one entity with many faces. they are pretty much the same shit, ive talked with many, been with some, and never managed to maintain a relationship at all, despite i being a super stable autist
in the beginning of knowing women, youll notice some differences, in what they say, how they behave, but the sum of it by the end of your contact with them is spread into a default pattern, they are legit npcs, its weird
RE: ramble: online dating is blackpilling, but for the wrong reasons (mostly) - Busty Doll - 15-06-2025
Why are you using Hinge when you are broke, neeguh?
I made 2 million dollars a year and don't dare download that golddigger app
RE: ramble: online dating is blackpilling, but for the wrong reasons (mostly) - dnr - 31-12-2025
good thread. this is why i only date autistic girls from teenager dating apps. i cant relate to ntoids
RE: ramble: online dating is blackpilling, but for the wrong reasons (mostly) - sinn - 31-12-2025
(31-12-2025, 11:32 PM)dnr Wrote: good thread. this is why i only date autistic girls from teenager dating apps. i cant relate to ntoidswizzmogger
if you aren't HWID banned on 2 phones on wizz in 2026 wtf are you doing
RE: ramble: online dating is blackpilling, but for the wrong reasons (mostly) - Mr Pill - 01-01-2026
(31-12-2025, 11:32 PM)dnr Wrote: good thread. this is why i only date autistic girls from teenager dating apps. i cant relate to ntoids
cage. 2020 yubo was the shit
RE: ramble: online dating is blackpilling, but for the wrong reasons (mostly) - mogs_me - 06-01-2026
(31-12-2025, 11:51 PM)sinn Wrote: wizzmogger
if you aren't HWID banned on 2 phones on wizz in 2026 wtf are you doing
i hate that i understand this sentence and even slightly relate to it