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social skills - Altruist - 15-07-2024
what the fuck are social skills?
RE: social skills - MVP - 15-07-2024
Talking skills
RE: social skills - Altruist - 15-07-2024
(15-07-2024, 07:27 PM)MVP Wrote: Talking skills
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RE: social skills - mogs_me - 15-07-2024
looks and not having autism
RE: social skills - Altruist - 15-07-2024
(15-07-2024, 07:36 PM)mogs_me Wrote: looks and not having autism
90% of people who think they have autism are just failed losers, usually also unaware of how sht their appearance is
unfortunately, thanks to my unlucky experience with youg parent neighbors with actually autistic kids, i got to know the difference between screeching autistic retards and losers unconsciously adapting their mannerisms to minimize the brutality of rejection they are receiving from society on the regular basis
RE: social skills - Mr Looks - 15-07-2024
the ability to talk and act how you look
RE: social skills - n9wiff - 15-07-2024
The more social skills you have = The less divergent you are of the neurotypicality of those around you.
A very confident person in public would be deemed as too "noisy" in some places where being docile and quiet is the ideal ,while it is rewarded actually in certain cultures.
So the more social skills you have - The less divergent you are of thee neurotypicality/neurotypical traits of those around you.
RE: social skills - Altruist - 15-07-2024
(15-07-2024, 08:42 PM)n9wiff Wrote: The more social skills you have = The less divergent you are of the neurotypicality of those around you.
A very confident person in public would be deemed as too "noisy" in some places where being docile and quiet is the ideal ,while it is rewarded actually in certain cultures.
So the more social skills you have - The less divergent you are of thee neurotypicality/neurotypical traits of those around you.
my question is: what are social skills?
RE: social skills - n9wiff - 15-07-2024
(15-07-2024, 08:47 PM)Altruist Wrote: my question is: what are social skills?
The amount of which you can adapt to the neurotypicality of those around you successfully. Leading to successful exchange of conversations, ideas, integration to society etc.
But everyone knows this though, just maybe people will word it differently. I feel like quantifying maybe is better to grasp the concept itself.
I got this idea from a biography I read a while back.
RE: social skills - MysteriousWeeb420 - 15-07-2024
propaganda to ensure low confidence subhumans fail at life
RE: social skills - cryingIRL - 15-07-2024
I bet if I let myself go I could talk to girls
RE: social skills - prince of shitskins - 16-07-2024
A Western imperialist social construct
Go see how well you can intermingle with people in China or a tribe in Papua New Guinea, where you're obligated to eat dogs and other people (respectively)
Its all relative and we should stop expecting people to conform to what we believe is right
RE: social skills - n9wiff - 16-07-2024
(16-07-2024, 12:05 AM)weekend warrior Wrote: A Western imperialist social constructTrue tbh
Go see how well you can intermingle with people in China or a tribe in Papua New Guinea, where you're obligated to eat dogs and other people (respectively)
Its all relative and we should stop expecting people to conform to what we believe is right
RE: social skills - M1NT - 16-07-2024
(15-07-2024, 08:42 PM)n9wiff Wrote: The more social skills you have = The less divergent you are of the neurotypicality of those around you.
A very confident person in public would be deemed as too "noisy" in some places where being docile and quiet is the ideal ,while it is rewarded actually in certain cultures.
So the more social skills you have - The less divergent you are of thee neurotypicality/neurotypical traits of those around you.
unbelievably based definition and true too. youre the first ive seen that put it so succinctly and clearly
I have poor social skills, but not because im a truly clueless autist, its more like I just dont give a shit about what others think and I just want to do/say what I feel like doing at the moment, but then later on regret being so cringe and wish I would have conformed to social standards like everyone else
I have a weird social catch 22, either conform and feel unhappy/suppressed or "bee myself" and get socially outcasted for being myself (a weirdo)
RE: social skills - RetrudedMaxilla - 17-07-2024
mirroring+larping apparently.
hard to take anyone seriously when every social interaction is a cesspit of bizarre theatrics where you're trying to appeal to other people's sensibilities, whether subconsciously or intentionally.