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I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. (/showthread.php?tid=20552)I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. - PinkFatso - 10-02-2024
Context from old post, more than a year ago (copy-paste):
TLDR: Chinese student in the US, Chinese-American boyfriend who helped me a lot with language and integration. This Summer I'll go to Italy, travel organized by my institute. My boyfriend started to act insecure, even asking for sex (we made it clear to remain virgins until our marriage, after college, he seemed happy about that).
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/bzef6w Long story short, I've gone. We took a break just before my trip (he asked for it) and we got back together shortly after my return. Even though I enjoyed the trip, I was quite saddened by this situation. However, the feeling of being there was incredibly good, I felt like I was living another life, like I was another person.
I was told Italians are a bit hostile to non-white people, but at least in the area we went the locals have welcomed us very well. We were a very diverse group, but local guys weren't shy of meeting us. Some girls hooked up with them in the first town we went. My friend encouraged me to do that, but while I enjoyed the attentions I didn't want to engage in it.
However, due to a combination of sadness (I really thought my story with my boyfriend was over), being in a different country, seeing other girls not minding about it... I started to think about it, but in the end I've always stopped flirting even before a kiss.
With one exception. We were in a very small town to make a project about the renovation of the local square. We were quite excited to have been trusted a relative important thing, and a local politician assisted us (mainly because he spoke English, he wasn't an expert about architecture). He was approaching 40's, but he was objectively very good-looking. Tall, muscular and amazing green eyes. Every girl in our group tried to get his attention. I was very surprised when I realized he was mainly focused on me. I won't say I'm ugly, but I thought he wouldn't be attracted by a foreign, shy girl much younger than him, I thought he was married or attracted to the more extroverted girls in our group.
We stayed there 4 days, on the third day I went with him (secretly, only another girl knew about it and covered me up). I couldn't believe I was doing that, never ever thought about doing such a thing (I don't judge people who do this, by the way). It was clear he wanted to have sex, I explained I wanted to remain a virgin until marriage, he immediately understood. I don't know how it happened, maybe I was overwhelmed by an unusual situation for me, maybe it was due to being in an exotic place or knowing I'll never meet him again, but in the end we had anal sex (I won't give any details, please don't ask). To make it clear, I never did it because I thought (and still think) it's hypocritical to engage in it just to keep your virginity.
I admit I liked it at the time but I quickly started to regret it. In the end, I've a nice memory but I consider it a mistake. If I could go back in time, I won't do it but I can't change the past. I've never told anyone about it, I said to my friend we only kissed and touched each other.
After I returned, I got back with my boyfriend. Recently, we started talking about a possible marriage, and we agreed to not have secrets between us and to accept everything. I confessed this experience and at first he went mad, comprehensibly. We had a long talk and he accepted my explanation, at least it seemed. But even though I made it clear I consider it a mistake and regret it, he's now asking me to do the same with him. I said I'm offended by his proposals, it's rude to remind me about it and disrespectful to ask me to do it when I straight up said to him I didn't want.
I don't think we could stay together if he keeps acting this way, and I don't know how I could help him to get over it.
TL,DR: I had sex (Not vaginal, I'm still a virgin and I want to remain a virgin until marriage) with a man in a foreign country while I was on a break with my boyfriend. I consider it a mistake and regret it, but after confessing it to him he's now asking me to do the same with him. I find this highly disrespectful (in the past, we both agreed to remain virgin until marriage) but I don't know how I could help him to get over it.
RE: I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. - Altruist - 10-02-2024
reads as something i'd post on my trolling reddit acc
RE: I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. - PinkFatso - 10-02-2024
(10-02-2024, 03:05 AM)Michelangelo Wrote: reads as something i'd post on my trolling reddit acc
![[Image: hu5tny7oms331.jpg?auto=webp&s=393b097d3c...030e716873]](https://preview.redd.it/hu5tny7oms331.jpg?auto=webp&s=393b097d3c03b78c8b9ced44bde0ca030e716873)
RE: I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. - Altruist - 10-02-2024
this changes everything
the "i got fucked in the ass to preserve virginity for my cuck boyfriend" trope is totally a new and original way to farm reps from gullible redditards and internet usertards whose only info about sex came from porn sites and internet larpers in general
RE: I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. - PinkFatso - 10-02-2024
(10-02-2024, 03:11 AM)Michelangelo Wrote: this changes everything
the "i got fucked in the ass to preserve virginity for my cuck boyfriend" trope is totally a new and original way to farm reps from gullible redditards and internet usertards in general
It's so ridiculous I might just believe it
RE: I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. - Altruist - 10-02-2024
(10-02-2024, 03:15 AM)PinkFatso Wrote:(10-02-2024, 03:11 AM)Michelangelo Wrote: this changes everything
the "i got fucked in the ass to preserve virginity for my cuck boyfriend" trope is totally a new and original way to farm reps from gullible redditards and internet usertards in general
It's so ridiculous I might just believe it
your body and mind, your choice
RE: I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. - PinkFatso - 10-02-2024
(10-02-2024, 03:16 AM)Michelangelo Wrote:(10-02-2024, 03:15 AM)PinkFatso Wrote:(10-02-2024, 03:11 AM)Michelangelo Wrote: this changes everything
the "i got fucked in the ass to preserve virginity for my cuck boyfriend" trope is totally a new and original way to farm reps from gullible redditards and internet usertards in general
It's so ridiculous I might just believe it
your body and mind, your choice
Being a tall, good looking white politician is everything
RE: I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. - Altruist - 10-02-2024
(10-02-2024, 03:17 AM)PinkFatso Wrote:(10-02-2024, 03:16 AM)Michelangelo Wrote:(10-02-2024, 03:15 AM)PinkFatso Wrote:(10-02-2024, 03:11 AM)Michelangelo Wrote: this changes everything
the "i got fucked in the ass to preserve virginity for my cuck boyfriend" trope is totally a new and original way to farm reps from gullible redditards and internet usertards in general
It's so ridiculous I might just believe it
your body and mind, your choice
Being a tall, good looking white politician is everything
you misspelled "short, repulsive albanian thief"
RE: I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. - bluerose - 10-02-2024
RE: I made a mistake and my boyfriend is now asking me to do it another time. - PinkFatso - 10-02-2024
(10-02-2024, 03:18 AM)Michelangelo Wrote:(10-02-2024, 03:17 AM)PinkFatso Wrote:(10-02-2024, 03:16 AM)Michelangelo Wrote:(10-02-2024, 03:15 AM)PinkFatso Wrote: It's so ridiculous I might just believe it
your body and mind, your choice
Being a tall, good looking white politician is everything
albanian
Chad trait ngl
At this point it's probably better to live there than where I do lol