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if I find out someone unfollows me on social media it ruins my day - lonelyjak - 29-06-2023

even if its someone I dont know that well, its worse obviously if its someone I considered a friend (even a distant one). can yall relate to this

I think as a NEET who has nothing going on, minor things like this really drag me down


RE: if I find out someone unfollows me on social media it ruins my day - hollow - 30-06-2023

Yes, if it's a girl


RE: if I find out someone unfollows me on social media it ruins my day - hurt - 30-06-2023

i'm surprised that you have any followers


RE: if I find out someone unfollows me on social media it ruins my day - kathisterima - 30-06-2023

I dont use social media anymore but that would ruin my day too


RE: if I find out someone unfollows me on social media it ruins my day - lonelyjak - 30-06-2023

(30-06-2023, 12:51 AM)hollow Wrote: Yes, if it's a girl
imagine if we were following each other on IG and one day I randomly unfollowed you. wouldnt you be hurt too?  Sad

but yeah I agree, does hurt more if its a girl

(30-06-2023, 01:29 AM)kathisterima Wrote: I dont use social media anymore but that would ruin my day too

why did you stop using social media?


RE: if I find out someone unfollows me on social media it ruins my day - brocode - 30-06-2023

I stopped looking at follower count eons ago

I only send memes to my close friends and they send memes back that’s it


RE: if I find out someone unfollows me on social media it ruins my day - lonelyjak - 30-06-2023

(30-06-2023, 01:47 AM)brocode Wrote: I stopped looking at follower count eons ago

I only send memes to my close friends and they send memes back that’s it
for me its an ego thing. as in, imagine that youre supporting someone you think is a friend by liking their stuff and giving them validation but then you find out that they dont even follow you anymore? it feels like being stabbed in the back

so my issue isnt about follower count, I dont care about that. its more about reciprocity or something along those lines


RE: if I find out someone unfollows me on social media it ruins my day - hollow - 30-06-2023

(30-06-2023, 01:37 AM)lonelyjak Wrote:
(30-06-2023, 12:51 AM)hollow Wrote: Yes, if it's a girl
imagine if we were following each other on IG and one day I randomly unfollowed you. wouldnt you be hurt too?  Sad

but yeah I agree, does hurt more if its a girl

Prolly true. I don't really follow friends so i can't relate