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Make sure the women/females are paying your bills, not any men (/showthread.php?tid=14833)Make sure the women/females are paying your bills, not any men - bookieboy - 09-05-2023
Make sure the women/females are paying your bills -- that way you never face any emasculation or competition issues with other males.
If females pay the bills they don't do it to emasculate males, but guys pay the bills & use this as a means to flex their status on you, or start bossing you around, or thinking they have too much skin in the game. With girls it's usually better in my experience.
It's better to kowtow to a female with power than a male as a male with power threatens your masculinity probably & more. The guy will give 25% or less and think he has 100%, while girls can give 100% but usually not have that same AMOGGING/DOM attitude.
Plus, it's way more agreeable to compartmentalize a system where a woman is in charge financially vs. a man, where the issue then draws out competitiveness & moneymogging. Men who pay bills while you don't are moneymogging -- & make sure the girls are passive. Not to take advantage per se, but it's easier to have women feel sorry for men, whereas men just want to mog other men.
Just make sure the female paying the bills is not some she-hulking bitch who will shit talk you/talk down to you. But in any case it's still better than some authoritative male paying the bills as then you will feel mogged, emasculated, etc. but likely not the same with a woman doing it. A woman paying the bills can be made to feel more sorry for you, but men often want to flex & impose on others.
RE: Make sure the women/females are paying your bills, not any men - bookieboy - 09-05-2023
If you "placate" the woman in charge/paying bills/etc. (like your mother) it's MUCH different than having to bow to another man doing it, as that renders you in the more beta position. No matter a woman's position a man can still be an "alpha" is my point, money or not.
But bring a whole bunch of tall, attractive, wealthy and dominating men around to pay your bills & you will feel like a bug.
A man can "feel like a man" still even if a woman is paying the rent and shit, but it's quite different when other, more masc. dudes do it.
Then you feel you have to deal with a powerful man which is not the same as still feeling ideal masculinity around paying women.