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Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? (/showthread.php?tid=13815)Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - AlbanianLegend1994 - 17-03-2023
Kinda regretting befriending that 28 (turning 29 soon) y.o. Tunisian guy/dealer I met at the nightclub last weekend
He told me he had a free beer for me few minutes ago and wanted to talk to me so I drove up to his place (one reason we became friends is that he moved to a new part of town and he doesn't know anyone here, and we happen to live very close to each other)
He was piss drunk + on some kinda drugs that make you go in thought loops and repeat the same things over and over. One of the things he kept repeating to me (at least 8 times, in very similar ways) was, "you know I gave you and your black friend $40 worth of stuff for free last weekend? Molly, beer, etc" then I was like "yeah and I don't take that for granted," I was gonna leave it at that but then when he kept going on about it, I looked him in the eyes and told him, "listen I don't play games, you keep repeating that, just be direct, if there's something you're looking to gain out of what you did for us then just say it." Then he was like "no I am saying that because your (black) friend is very bizarre, didn't appreciate what I did for him, he's the type of guy to take more in the future and expect to get it for free, and I don't like that etc"
I was like yeah sure lol that's why you kept repeating that
Then he was like, "let me show you something." Then he took out his phone and showed me a bank transaction he made recently (he had sent somebody $500) and then he goes to me, "you know, I was intending on sending that person $20 but I was too drunk and accidentally sent him $500. After I did that, the person just disappeared, you know what I did after? I found his address, drove all the way to his place, broke into his place and stole his laptop."
Then he goes to me, "show me where you live?" and I was like yeah, nahh lol you being sus bro, that ain't happening, etc. He didn't insist though, and then we got out of my car and he wrapped his arm around me, got super touchy with me and he was like "Wallah, we are bros, I always wanted a bro, I don't know anyone around here, I have so much respect for you bro, I love you so much, if ever you make an enemy around here tell me and I will take care of them"
We went back to my car and he reached out for a cig and I told him, "nah man, it has to be outside." He said he would keep the window open and I said nah that's not enough, go back out and I'll go with you, then he was like nvm I won't smoke now, we just drove around a bit and then he was like "you know that girl who liked you at the night club last weekend and was talking to you, etc," I'm like yeah... he goes, "I hope you didn't tell her you know me, and I hope you didn't tell tell her I told you she's a whore etc," I'm like dafuk I'm not an idiot, and then he goes, "also my friend is trying to go after her man," I go to him yeah I just got her # but I am not even interested in pursuing. That was not me submitting to him btw, I just genuinely wasn't interested in doing anything with that #. Anyway, he mentioned the exact same thing about the girl at least 5 times within the next few minutes. Finally dropped him off at his place and he hugged me again and then blew a kiss and said "kisses bro, I love you so much bro, wallah."
@eldajaal1488
RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - vicious cycle - 17-03-2023
the first redflag is he's gay, the second is he's gay plus drunk/drugged (so extra gay/clingy and obsessive.) you are going to get yourself in trouble talking or being too amiable to those degens
RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - AlbanianLegend1994 - 17-03-2023
(17-03-2023, 09:19 AM)vicious cycle Wrote: the first redflag is he's gay, the second is he's gay plus drunk/drugged. you are going to get yourself in trouble talking or being amiable to those degens
Do you really think he's gay tho? I don't know if he is, Arab and North African men are very affectionate towards one another if they're friends, it's part of their culture. He just happened to be in a club that is like 60% gay because it's right next to the gay village
I think he's trying to get something out of me or am I being too paranoid? @AntonioJuraz
This guy is not even very intimidating-looking. His frame is the same as mine, his skull is the same size and length as mine (mine might be a bit bigger tbh), and he's maybe half an inch shorter. My eye area is more intimidating than his by a long shot, lmao
But certainly he challenged me in the sense that I had to tap into a low inhib character to match his, and to do that while sober, jfl, still managed tho
RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - brocode - 17-03-2023
why is it that, every new friend u make, turns out to be closeted?
RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - vicious cycle - 17-03-2023
(17-03-2023, 09:27 AM)AlbanianLegend1994 Wrote: Do you really think he's gay tho? I don't know if he is, Arab and North African men are very affectionate towards one another if they're friends, it's part of their culture. He just happened to be in a club that is like 60% gay because it's right next to the gay village
I think he's trying to get something out of me or am I being too paranoid? @AntonioJuraz
This guy is not even very intimidating-looking. His frame is the same as mine, his skull is the same size and length as mine (mine might be a bit bigger tbh), and he's maybe half an inch shorter. My eye area is more intimidating than his by a long shot, lmao
But certainly he challenged me in the sense that I had to tap into a low inhib character to match his, and to do that while sober, jfl, still managed tho
that kind of behavior I don't see happening unless you know the person for a long time. maybe it's the culture as you say but I would avoid tbh
RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - vicious cycle - 17-03-2023
(17-03-2023, 09:33 AM)brocode Wrote: why is it that, every new friend u make, turns out to be closeted?
it's Canada
RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - Mustang - 17-03-2023
Literally join
RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - vicious cycle - 17-03-2023
(17-03-2023, 09:36 AM)Mustang Wrote: Literally join
dude
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RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - AntonioJuraz - 23-03-2023
dude sounds mentally unstable ngl but it might just be the drugs
RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - psychoman - 23-03-2023
Just know the kinda guy, he is mad that he spend money for your nigger friend and you but got nothing in return.
RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - AlbanianLegend1994 - 21-01-2024
Quote:Then he goes to me, "show me where you live?" and I was like yeah, nahh lol you being sus bro, that ain't happening, etc. He didn't insist though, and then we got out of my car and he wrapped his arm around me, got super touchy with me and he was like "Wallah, we are bros, I always wanted a bro, I don't know anyone around here, I have so much respect for you bro, I love you so much, if ever you make an enemy around here tell me and I will take care of them"
@"slop"
@bluerose
RE: Can someone who is not aspie tell me what this guy wants from me? - AlbanianLegend1994 - 21-01-2024
Fucking hell this thread gave me the chills
I NEED TO GO OUT AND MEET RANDOM PEOPLE AGAIN
WHAT AM I DOING STAYING HOME ON A SATURDAY NIGHT
Nvm it's close to -20 C outside and I'm still a broke nigga