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i keep feeling like im treated specially at work - AntonioJuraz - 04-03-2023
lately i keep have deja vu moments too.
it's weird i keep getting opportunities and stuff given to me, and i just say yes cause im so bored of everything, any new thing is interesting. i keep being brought into meetings where i am useless in but i am invited and told to listen in, which is nice, as i am learning a lot about our systems and procedures.
the other day someone high up in the company was telling me how impressed they were with what i did to a process we have that i made it much easier that now someone else can take it over and i can move onto something new. one of the exact phrases said was "it just goes to show when you put something into the hands of the right person you can get the results you want"
now out of the blue on something i email out daily to some higher ups, one of them replied all and said in a sentence or two how awesome i am and how i am doing a great job. they don't normally reply and the old person who used to do this report told me they NEVER got a response and to not expect one and they are still on the email i send out and were on the reply too.
im so tired rn i slept 5 hours last night cause i worked extra last night and then woke up early today to finish something i didn't have enough time to do last night. this maybe is part of why i got that compliment email today. i just woke up from a nap but soon to go back to sleep.
even my new manager who i was sure the first few times we interacted he thought i was stupid and not deserving of the new job seems to like me a lot now, the first time i remember he showed me that he liked me was when randomly in a large meeting with 30~ people he started the meeting off by complimenting me on the color of the walls of the room i am in. he is going to personally train me on something new next week that i will be doing for a bunch of executives in the company going forward. he told me it will be a good way to further my career. i have managers at the company actively tell me what to do to further my career, i feel like this is not something normal either.
i don't feel like im doing anything special either, i kinda want to cope or maybe anti cope by just saying its my looks and intelligence.
it's weird along with my feelings of deja vu i keep having feelings that there is some sort of conspiracy towards me, not a bad one, but like i said once before a long time ago in another post a conspiracy to groom me into a higher and higher position in the company.
RE: i keep feeling like im treated specially at work - lonelyjak - 04-03-2023
its because they think youre "special". they detect your autism and treat you with kid gloves, thats why theyre extra nice to you :)
RE: i keep feeling like im treated specially at work - AntonioJuraz - 04-03-2023
(04-03-2023, 05:39 AM)lonelyjak Wrote: its because they think youre "special". they detect your autism and treat you with kid gloves, thats why theyre extra nice to you :)
sometimes i wish i really did have autism instead of my hyper-awareness in social situations. i remember in elementary school people would come to me and ask me if i thought person x liked them back and stuff cause i was so good at pointing out when someone had a crush on someone else lol
RE: i keep feeling like im treated specially at work - lonelyjak - 04-03-2023
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dont forget to vote for trump in 2024 little guy ;)
RE: i keep feeling like im treated specially at work - AntonioJuraz - 04-03-2023
(04-03-2023, 05:48 AM)lonelyjak Wrote:
dont forget to vote for trump in 2024 little guy ;)
how tall are you?
RE: i keep feeling like im treated specially at work - lonelyjak - 04-03-2023
(04-03-2023, 05:55 AM)AntonioJuraz Wrote:(04-03-2023, 05:48 AM)lonelyjak Wrote:
dont forget to vote for trump in 2024 little guy ;)
how tall are you?
