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What being non NT means in my opinion - hollow - 18-01-2023
So i went out tonight again to some family event. My family knows quite a lot of people so lots of people knew me there
I usually get welcomed warmly and even complimented sometimes
But there i am, shaking hands etc. and every single time it comes to chatting, even if it's just a few sentences i don't know what to say. I say cringe shit, or don't say anything at all and smile, or i'm about to say something, then stop and act like i didn't say anything
Then i just stand there completely out of place, not sure where to look. Whether i should look at people or just stare at the wall...
I am mentally not even in the state where i could care about girls for example cos i all think about is how i should act to appear "normal"
RE: What being non NT means in my opinion - hollow - 18-01-2023
Even afterwards i am still stressed from it and i didn't even stay long
RE: What being non NT means in my opinion - kathisterima - 18-01-2023
Can't relate. When it comes to socializing, I just take over. I have very rivetting energy.
RE: What being non NT means in my opinion - hollow - 19-01-2023
(18-01-2023, 11:54 PM)kathisterima Wrote: Can't relate. When it comes to socializing, I just take over. I have very rivetting energy.
Mirin, what does rivetting mean?
RE: What being non NT means in my opinion - hollow - 19-01-2023
I think i'd legit have 0 problems with girls if i weren't so stuck up and autistic
RE: What being non NT means in my opinion - kathisterima - 19-01-2023
(19-01-2023, 12:09 AM)hollow Wrote:(18-01-2023, 11:54 PM)kathisterima Wrote: Can't relate. When it comes to socializing, I just take over. I have very rivetting energy.
Mirin, what does rivetting mean?
Idk, stole it from my pet
RE: What being non NT means in my opinion - man with the nasally voice - 19-01-2023
just stop caring
RE: What being non NT means in my opinion - lonelyjak - 19-01-2023
(18-01-2023, 11:42 PM)hollow Wrote: So i went out tonight again to some family event. My family knows quite a lot of people so lots of people knew me therethis happens to me sometimes, especially if im already stressed out about something beforehand. the irony is that I create awkward situations because I try to preempt not knowing what to say by talking about something random and it usually comes off as offputting. I would be more successful socially if I just didnt give a shit about people (im too empathetic)
I usually get welcomed warmly and even complimented sometimes
But there i am, shaking hands etc. and every single time it comes to chatting, even if it's just a few sentences i don't know what to say. I say cringe shit, or don't say anything at all and smile, or i'm about to say something, then stop and act like i didn't say anything
Then i just stand there completely out of place, not sure where to look. Whether i should look at people or just stare at the wall...
I am mentally not even in the state where i could care about girls for example cos i all think about is how i should act to appear "normal"
(18-01-2023, 11:54 PM)kathisterima Wrote: Can't relate. When it comes to socializing, I just take over. I have very rivetting energy.true I can see that. big forum admin chad energy