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I am intimated by "dating" - hollow - 17-01-2023
Every once in a while i match with a legit good looking girl on OLD
Right now this good looking polish girl matched and texted me. I think she might be a catfish
Whatever. Even thinking about meeting her i get intimidated
I know i am not fun to be around most of the time
So i start thinking about all the shit she might no like about me
I am blackpilled, but i guess i am just not good looking enough to rely on looks 100%
It's too stressful at the end of the day
At this point i have to come to peace with the fact that i am a loner and not made for the normie life... which is quite depressing
RE: I am intimated by "dating" - lonelyjak - 17-01-2023
(17-01-2023, 04:15 PM)hollow Wrote: Every once in a while i match with a legit good looking girl on OLDim happy being an IRL loner, although I have an extremely busy online life. this is just the way I like it:
Right now this good looking polish girl matched and texted me. I think she might be a catfish
Whatever. Even thinking about meeting her i get intimidated
I know i am not fun to be around most of the time
So i start thinking about all the shit she might no like about me
I am blackpilled, but i guess i am just not good looking enough to rely on looks 100%
It's too stressful at the end of the day
At this point i have to come to peace with the fact that i am a loner and not made for the normie life... which is quite depressing
real life loner, online socialite
RE: I am intimated by "dating" - hollow - 17-01-2023
(17-01-2023, 04:44 PM)lonelyjak Wrote:(17-01-2023, 04:15 PM)hollow Wrote: Every once in a while i match with a legit good looking girl on OLDim happy being an IRL loner, although I have an extremely busy online life. this is just the way I like it:
Right now this good looking polish girl matched and texted me. I think she might be a catfish
Whatever. Even thinking about meeting her i get intimidated
I know i am not fun to be around most of the time
So i start thinking about all the shit she might no like about me
I am blackpilled, but i guess i am just not good looking enough to rely on looks 100%
It's too stressful at the end of the day
At this point i have to come to peace with the fact that i am a loner and not made for the normie life... which is quite depressing
real life loner, online socialite
I don't find it that fulfilling, but i always fall into it. Tbh it's for better, as it's so much less stressful
I'll just see where things are going, but actively "dating" and "socializing" puts too much pressure on me