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getting insane red flags from a girl (bpd?) (/showthread.php?tid=10758)getting insane red flags from a girl (bpd?) - Noonz - 19-11-2022
subject: a light-skin black girl with a harsh background (foster care, some physical abuse, a virgin until age 19)
she’ll be nice to me, but then she’ll be mean/give me the silent treatment or ignore me on the very same day.
there’s extremely immature emotionality—quite dramatic with obvious anger issues, which include lashing out at others over minor perceived slights, and she’s lashed out at me for even trying to speak with her sometimes as well after I screwed up with her, but then she’ll talk to me an hour or two later like nothing happened.
what do? she’s shown obvious interest: trying to speak with me, teasing/giving compliments, trying to be near me, staring, etc.
what I’m trying to determine NOW is if I should attempt to escalate, which might anger her, or if I should just back off for good. her anger is something I’m still not entirely sure how to handle. I’ve so far only tried to be reasonable/not lose my cool and to give her space. one approach I haven’t tried is showing compassion, but that’s risky, and there’s only so much abuse I will take.
RE: getting insane red flags from a girl (bpd?) - eldajaal1488 - 19-11-2022
idk she will probably shoot you in dick soon. but anything for love because love=everything
RE: getting insane red flags from a girl (bpd?) - eldajaal1488 - 19-11-2022
(19-11-2022, 04:23 AM)Noonz Wrote: she’s lashed out at me for even trying to speak with her sometimes as well after I screwed up with her, but then she’ll talk to me an hour or two later like nothing happened.sounds like she felt ,,even'' after lashing out, so she got tame again
maybe actual bpd or more like narcy but pussy type?
unironically try talking with her in open and aspie way like this, if shes not down move on. if shes down be ready to be her nurse
RE: getting insane red flags from a girl (bpd?) - Machink - 19-11-2022
Leave, period. Don’t bother with women who have cluster b psychiatric disorders
RE: getting insane red flags from a girl (bpd?) - kathisterima - 19-11-2022
just go to another cashier, Eugene
RE: getting insane red flags from a girl (bpd?) - AntonioJuraz - 19-11-2022
no sexual abuse in her history? are you sure about that?