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failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - hitlersblackedwaifu - 12-04-2026
Just came back from a terrible small-talk session and getting ignored at a social gathering. Had to leave early, felt like shit.
Atp I have no hope for redemption. That's how it is, and it'll keep being like that for ever. Like the psychiatrist said, that's just my personality, and there's no cure or method of containment.
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - B00X - 12-04-2026
exactly, there is no escape.
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - numb digger - 12-04-2026
No, it doesn't
Tell them all to rot in hell and cut all contact like I did with the shelter people
Trust me when I say they all talk massive shit behind your back.
People are gonna treat you like you're scum forever and look at you with contempt
Isolate and realize only the people on this forums see you as a peer
Trying is only going to make you more confused and bitter
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - numb digger - 12-04-2026
That said there's some people I genuinely get along with, but they're massive losers like me. Not that I judge them for it
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - hitlersblackedwaifu - 12-04-2026
(12-04-2026, 01:12 AM)numb digger Wrote: That said there's some people I genuinely get along with, but they're massive losers like me. Not that I judge them for it
I genuinely think it all happens because I'm a failure. If I had a successful career they'd either make it easy for me or I wouldn't give a fuck if they didn't. Or maybe I'm delusional.
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - numb digger - 12-04-2026
(12-04-2026, 01:15 AM)hitlersblackedwaifu Wrote: I genuinely think it all happens because I'm a failure. If I had a successful career they'd either make it easy for me or I wouldn't give a fuck if they didn't. Or maybe I'm delusional.
It's not what you do it's what you are tbh
Don't beat yourself up over it
There's nothing you couldve done to prevent this
At the shelter they all treated me like I had fucking leprosy or something except my aunt who just felt bad for me lmao. If you're similar than just give up is the best advice
Youre either too ugly/too aspie/too poor, or all the above. It is what it is
People are always going to turn on you talk shit and make backhanded remarks. Just forget about seeking social validation and give up completely on the idea of having more than 1 good irl friend (if ur lucky)
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - machinelves - 12-04-2026
i just dont talk bc when i open my mouth everyone realizes im a retarded aspie but when i smile and nod ppl just attribute random positive traits and r fine with me
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - machinelves - 12-04-2026
(12-04-2026, 01:15 AM)hitlersblackedwaifu Wrote: I genuinely think it all happens because I'm a failure. If I had a successful career they'd either make it easy for me or I wouldn't give a fuck if they didn't. Or maybe I'm delusional.
i think ur just delusional bc ur not rly a failure
tjere r a bunch of hs dropouts with insane charisma/social charm
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - Mr Pill - 12-04-2026
it’s hard to be social if you’re not accustomed to larping as an extreme introvert
I’m lucky I had an extremely charismatic Chad older brother to emulate
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - Altruist - 12-04-2026
(12-04-2026, 02:35 AM)Mr Pill Wrote: it’s hard to be social if you’re not accustomed to larping as an extreme introvert
I’m lucky I had an extremely charismatic Chad older brother to emulate
You are welcome
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - alien sex - 12-04-2026
you dont have it!
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - Altruist - 12-04-2026
(12-04-2026, 12:59 AM)hitlersblackedwaifu Wrote: Just came back from a terrible small-talk session and getting ignored at a social gathering. Had to leave early, felt like shit.
Atp I have no hope for redemption. That's how it is, and it'll keep being like that for ever. Like the psychiatrist said, that's just my personality, and there's no cure or method of containment.
Bro
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - Mr Looks - 12-04-2026
There is no C getting along with 90% of people
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - Altruist - 12-04-2026
(12-04-2026, 12:20 PM)Mr Looks Wrote: There is no C getting along with 90% of people
Try being gl for a day
RE: failed at socializing again: does it ever get better... - Mr Looks - 12-04-2026
(12-04-2026, 12:23 PM)Altruist Wrote: Try being gl for a day
Looks has nothing to do with it brainlet. It's their cortisol and psychopathy/ego levels that count