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why rejection hurt so much - kathisterima - 19-08-2025
is it ego or is that a person you like doesn't like you back
imagine being a shy autistic person observing someone you like and then slowly growing emotional attachment to them, timidly attempting to connect with them only to be shut down brutally
this probably sounds like crazy bluepill tbh
I envy guys like towncel and undisputed who are innately evil and automatically assume the worst out of people and hate is their only emotion.
RE: why rejection hurt so much - n9wiff - 19-08-2025
feeling unwanted sucks
and it's embarrassing mentally to like someone so much for them to see you as just an awkward blimp in their daily lives, and then realizing that after getting confirmation
RE: why rejection hurt so much - n9wiff - 19-08-2025
numbers game ; :P
RE: why rejection hurt so much - Mr Looks - 19-08-2025
The disappointment of realizing your fantasy never had a chance
RE: why rejection hurt so much - machinelves - 19-08-2025
oh god brutal timing. i think it is the realization that u mean nothing to them and they mean a lot to u etc
RE: why rejection hurt so much - RuudVanNistelrooy - 19-08-2025
I used to throw small love notes in my oneitis backpack. She never seemed to care.
RE: why rejection hurt so much - MVP - 19-08-2025
its a human weakness
i wish i was immune to rejection, but dont know how
RE: why rejection hurt so much - kathisterima - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 06:58 PM)MVP Wrote: its a human weakness
i wish i was immune to rejection, but dont know how
we are the most fragile species
RE: why rejection hurt so much - towncel - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 06:46 PM)kathisterima Wrote: I envy guys like towncel and undisputed who are innately evil and automatically assume the worst out of people and hate is their only emotion.
What does it save me from? I will get rejected anyway and without asking.
RE: why rejection hurt so much - machinelves - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 06:46 PM)kathisterima Wrote: is it ego or is that a person you like doesn't like you back
imagine being a shy autistic person observing someone you like and then slowly growing emotional attachment to them, timidly attempting to connect with them only to be shut down brutally
this probably sounds like crazy bluepill tbh
I envy guys like towncel and undisputed who are innately evil and automatically assume the worst out of people and hate is their only emotion.
is undisputed still here
RE: why rejection hurt so much - Mr Looks - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 06:51 PM)RuudVanNistelrooy Wrote: I used to throw small love notes in my oneitis backpack. She never seemed to care.
Im sorry man, you didn't deserve it
Sounds like something I couls have done tbh
RE: why rejection hurt so much - kathisterima - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 07:01 PM)machinelves Wrote: is undisputed still here
no, he quit years before lookism went down
RE: why rejection hurt so much - kathisterima - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 07:01 PM)towncel Wrote: What does it save me from? I will get rejected anyway and without asking.
your approach is very pragmatic, mirin
RE: why rejection hurt so much - machinelves - 19-08-2025
(19-08-2025, 07:07 PM)kathisterima Wrote: no, he quit years before lookism went down
RE: why rejection hurt so much - Dreckssau - 19-08-2025
This tells you everything you need to know.