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A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - AlbanianLegend1994 - 17-12-2023
She kept flirting with me at work, getting more touchy recently, called me "good looking" ("I saw you as a dark horse when you first joined the company, and I thought you would use your good looks to get ahead of me"), and then she kept hinting she wanted to hang out on the weekend because she has no one to go to a new restaurant with. So we went yesterday, and it was pretty apparent it wasn't a date but more of a "clearing the air" type of thing. There are three things I did at work that she holds against me, 1) I insulted her outfit one day 2) I called her 'secretary' 3) I apparently threw her under the bus when the CEO questioned us about something.
She's still very mistrustful of me (and in general) and thinks I have ill intent
She also keeps commenting that my dad is a misogynist and she doesn't ever want to meet him. She thinks I have "toxic masculinity" and many traits that I took after him. And btw most of her values are 'western modern conservative' (she's East European and is very conspiracy theory-oriented) so don't confuse the things she said there with where she stands politically etc
Anyway after all that's happened to me in the last year, I'm at that stage where I'm leaning more towards "It's my personality!"
But you can't forget one thing, if you had Jon Erik Hexum's looks, that same personality would be another one. She would also overlook the fact that you're making less money than her, have a lack of ambition and are an aimless wanderer, etc.
And that's exactly why looks theory will always prevail
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - AlbanianLegend1994 - 18-12-2023
(17-12-2023, 09:33 PM)missingmaxilla Wrote: she was just being nice and you weren't chad. many such cases
I'm not chad but if you're implying I'm an average guy girls are "just nice to" then you couldn't be more wrong. My point is the threshold to get away with anything is beyond what I'll ever be
Like this same girl I went to a restaurant with yesterday showed so much jealousy when this new girl (from the same country + better looking than her) joined the company and started interacting with me. She (the new girl) kept telling me I looked like some celebrity (who I don't even look like), she found me on instagram (I never gave anyone my social media), and used google translate to ask me if she could do my zodiac reading because she wanted to get to know "more about me." Then she saw we kinda conflicted sign wise ("you have a lot of water in your planets, and I have fire...") or smth like that, but she kept hitting on me even after that, like one day we were in the kitchen and she used google translate from Russian to English on the phone to tell me "by the way I just noticed today that you have such beautiful hands."
Also just to give you a perspective on how unrelatable my life story is to yours, on the way to meeting the girl from my original post at the restaurant yesterday, I got a phone call from my friend because he told me our friend's cousin that we met the day before yesterday wanted to see me again today but she was too shy to ask me directly. As if it wasn't obvious that she was into me from all the thigh-grabbing and excuses to "touch" me.
Then I had to call that guy (I don't have his cousin's number) and tell him that I'm seeing someone right now, even though I'm not, but just to get her off me. If it's impossible for me to get away with anything, then imagine how brutal it's going to be for you on your "looksmaxing journey" (who I am 100% sure I gigamog).
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - prince of shitskins - 18-12-2023
She went on a date with you to tell you you're an asshole?
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - AlbanianLegend1994 - 18-12-2023
(18-12-2023, 12:38 AM)Nigger Wrote: She went on a date with you to tell you you're an asshole?
It wasn't a date. She already knows I'm single/not looking and she even said she sees me as a guy who enjoys having a lineup of girls but not pursuing anything unless they're 100% my ideal type, and she's right
(18-12-2023, 12:49 AM)missingmaxilla Wrote:(18-12-2023, 12:24 AM)AlbanianLegend1994 Wrote:you wrote all that just for me to immediately reply with 1 line. brutal mog.(17-12-2023, 09:33 PM)missingmaxilla Wrote: she was just being nice and you weren't chad. many such cases
I'm not chad but if you're implying I'm an average guy girls are "just nice to" then you couldn't be more wrong. My point is the threshold to get away with anything is beyond what I'll ever be
Like this same girl I went to a restaurant with yesterday showed so much jealousy when this new girl (from the same country + better looking than her) joined the company and started interacting with me. She (the new girl) kept telling me I looked like some celebrity (who I don't even look like), she found me on instagram (I never gave anyone my social media), and used google translate to ask me if she could do my zodiac reading because she wanted to get to know "more about me." Then she saw we kinda conflicted sign wise ("you have a lot of water in your planets, and I have fire...") or smth like that, but she kept hitting on me even after that, like one day we were in the kitchen and she used google translate from Russian to English on the phone to tell me "by the way I just noticed today that you have such beautiful hands."
Also just to give you a perspective on how unrelatable my life story is to yours, on the way to meeting the girl from my original post at the restaurant yesterday, I got a phone call from my friend because he told me our friend's cousin that we met the day before yesterday wanted to see me again today but she was too shy to ask me directly. As if it wasn't obvious that she was into me from all the thigh-grabbing and excuses to "touch" me.
If it's impossible for me to get away with anything, then imagine how brutal it's going to be for you on your "looksmaxing journey" (who I am 100% sure I gigamog).
Zero substance post
Put your shitjeet face (and height) next to me (a 6'2" South East European god) and then we'll see who mogs who
What's brutal is if you experienced even 0.1% of the validation I got in my entire lifetime you would be flying in the clouds rn, but I'm so desensitized to it by now because of overstimulation + over-validation over the years. Only validation from 95th+ percentile Stacies means anything anymore
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - AlbanianLegend1994 - 18-12-2023
(18-12-2023, 01:37 AM)missingmaxilla Wrote: My one line posts are practically a thesis compared to your pathetic ethnic garble, shitskin. I've mostly disgregarded you out of pity, since I can't figure out if your name is either ironic or you're actually proud of being Albanian (who tbh even by Balkan standards, are malignant Muslim rapebabies). For your sake, I'll assume not, because you're a 'south eastern god' by the same metric that sub-saharan Africans are white europeans. can't think of a more shameful heritage tbh, maybe somali or congolese. maybe try having credit if you're going to start posturing to me.
i'm pretty sure my anecdotes of romance and validation would send you into a state of cardiogenic shock from the cortisol spikes they'd induce. don't think i'd even be able to recognise your face in my pile of mutilated corpses. try harder.
Insanely cringe and try-hard "rebuttal."
Also cage how this response took you over 15 minutes to type. 80% of your post was an attempt to insult an ethnicity that is not even mine (this is just a username) and the rest reminds me of those early 20s kids on lookism that used to compensate their lack of wit + knowledge with verbosity.
Tell us about the time you thought a cashier smiled at you, 5'7 1/2" shitjeet.
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - AlbanianLegend1994 - 18-12-2023
Still waiting for you to share your 'gigamogger' moments, shitjeet @"missingmaxilla"
Tell us about what girls have done to you, some spontaneous moments in public settings in broad daylight, etc. Stuff like that. Not only nightlife.
These cringe, 0 practicality 'ethnicity slights' are leaving no effect on anyone except for maybe someone with an sfcel complex such as yourself. Like maybe you'll get an 'ah hah!' from some sfcel in his mom's basement, but real life will tell you girls here don't give a fuck and actually largely prefer men who look "exotic white" or Middle Eastern (their words, not mine)
So go on, tell us what girls have done to you to merit boasting about it like you did in the post before. If you don't, we will just assume it never happened.
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - PinkFatso - 16-03-2024
Truly an S tier thread
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - AlbanianLegend1994 - 16-03-2024
(16-03-2024, 05:28 AM)PinkFatso Wrote: Truly an S tier thread
She's in Ukraine right now (visiting grandparents), took a week off from work and she is nonstop sharing pics and vids with me, and saying how she's gonna bring me so many "goodies that I will like" when she gets back. "It's gonna be special, cuz it's from me ;)"
A loser would think to brag about this on the forum, but I'm posting this here to say that it's an insult. If you ACTUALLY looked good, a girl you're not dating wouldn't feel "this" comfortable around you
A girl of her PSL rating would be terrified of someone like Jon Erik Hexum for example
Anyway, it's shit like this that turbovirgins on this forum and shitjeetmax are 1) not experienced with (and never will be) and 2) not intelligent/sentient enough to be able to nuance
"OMG CHAD!" would be the kneejerk reaction in these circles but these subhumans are still in the pre-kindergarten phase of IOI-detection and analysis meanwhile I'm working on my second PhD
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - AlbanianLegend1994 - 16-03-2024
@"slop"
@bluerose
@kathisterima
@CreamOfTheCrop
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - PinkFatso - 16-03-2024
It's been more than a decade at this point since I got any IOIs (more specifically, in early high school/late middle school) so I can't relate
I will give you some credit though, I like the posts where you mock the redditposters but some of your blogposting is subpar
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - Mr Looks - 16-03-2024
No one goes to a dinner date with someone they don't like.
She was testing how you will react to the shit she hits you with
Keep being an easygoing asshole always works
Also any update?
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - AlbanianLegend1994 - 16-03-2024
(16-03-2024, 05:48 AM)Mr Looks Wrote: No one goes to a dinner date with someone they don't like.
She was testing how you will react to the shit she hits you with
Keep being an easygoing asshole always works
Also any update?
Perhaps. And naturally I'm nice irl almost always but also can be a bit of a jerk sometimes. Like she told me one time and idk if I mentioned this in the OP, that I should "be nice to the people who genuinely like you" (referring to herself)
I still lean towards "cope" when it comes to things like her using that "date" to test me
I'm curious about your take on this, and this is about another girl.
Suppose you were "seeing" a slutty bartender for a few months (keep in mind she's the one who approached you first and was the one obsessed with you whereas you had ambivalent feelings towards her), had sex a few times but never wanted to commit to her and were 100% transparent about where you stand on this
At some point she says "next time, it has to be you who initiates" (us meeting at a motel or hotel and fucking), but things cool off and then she contacts you months later to hang out, and you say sure. At some point in your interaction (after she's had a few drinks and smoked some weed) she shows you a picture of a guy she's now fucking. Some other guy who showed up at her bar one night. (You mog the guy but you're phenotypically close). In my head I just felt bad for the bitch. Like she was dating up (me) and now she has to resort to a lower tier guy, maybe someone she can actually keep?
My friend's take on this was "bro she was just signaling to you that she's still slutty and down to fuck," but in my head (because I think I understand her mind better) I was thinking she's trying to make me jealous, but I legit felt nothing
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - eldajaal1488 - 16-03-2024
damn it never began
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - eldajaal1488 - 16-03-2024
(16-03-2024, 06:11 AM)AlbanianLegend1994 Wrote: Perhaps. And naturally I'm nice irl almost always but also can be a bit of a jerk sometimes. Like she told me one time and idk if I mentioned this in the OP, that I should "be nice to the people who genuinely like you" (referring to herself)
I still lean towards "cope" when it comes to things like her using that "date" to test me
I'm curious about your take on this, and this is about another girl.
Suppose you were "seeing" a slutty bartender for a few months (keep in mind she's the one who approached you first and was the one obsessed with you whereas you had ambivalent feelings towards her), had sex a few times but never wanted to commit to her and were 100% transparent about where you stand on this
At some point she says "next time, it has to be you who initiates" (us meeting at a motel or hotel and fucking), but things cool off and then she contacts you months later to hang out, and you say sure. At some point in your interaction (after she's had a few drinks and smoked some weed) she shows you a picture of a guy she's now fucking. Some other guy who showed up at her bar one night. (You mog the guy but you're phenotypically close). In my head I just felt bad for the bitch. Like she was dating up (me) and now she has to resort to a lower tier guy, maybe someone she can actually keep?
My friend's take on this was "bro she was just signaling to you that she's still slutty and down to fuck," but in my head (because I think I understand her mind better) I was thinking she's trying to make me jealous, but I legit felt nothing
eh sounds like she accepted her pumpee n dumpee status in her head and moved on ngl
soon shes gonna oofy doofy maxx. this is like final roll of dice to get someone attractive to ltr her
RE: A girl who I thought liked me doesn't seem to like me - Mr Looks - 16-03-2024
(16-03-2024, 06:11 AM)AlbanianLegend1994 Wrote: Perhaps. And naturally I'm nice irl almost always but also can be a bit of a jerk sometimes. Like she told me one time and idk if I mentioned this in the OP, that I should "be nice to the people who genuinely like you" (referring to herself)
I still lean towards "cope" when it comes to things like her using that "date" to test me
I'm curious about your take on this, and this is about another girl.
Suppose you were "seeing" a slutty bartender for a few months (keep in mind she's the one who approached you first and was the one obsessed with you whereas you had ambivalent feelings towards her), had sex a few times but never wanted to commit to her and were 100% transparent about where you stand on this
At some point she says "next time, it has to be you who initiates" (us meeting at a motel or hotel and fucking), but things cool off and then she contacts you months later to hang out, and you say sure. At some point in your interaction (after she's had a few drinks and smoked some weed) she shows you a picture of a guy she's now fucking. Some other guy who showed up at her bar one night. (You mog the guy but you're phenotypically close). In my head I just felt bad for the bitch. Like she was dating up (me) and now she has to resort to a lower tier guy, maybe someone she can actually keep?
My friend's take on this was "bro she was just signaling to you that she's still slutty and down to fuck," but in my head (because I think I understand her mind better) I was thinking she's trying to make me jealous, but I legit felt nothing
Both you and your friend is correct.
Ofc she didn't magically lose her feelings for you after getting another guy to commit, unreachable is always more attractive especially in wymyn's mind
She probably showed the picture to get a reaction out of you, it's important to dodge it off with a mocking/don't give a fuck attitude when ppl try to give you cancer with these unasked social standing tests
If you didn't do anything to lower your value in her eyes it's probably more than possible to have her deliver herself to your place for sex via text ubereats style
You see since wymyn think they are special they have this fantasy of taming the untameable beast, making the unreachable man commit. They are the main character of this story after all